What you tolerate, you endorse.
As a leader, the question arises: what exactly are you endorsing?
In my view, you should only endorse:
- Living your core values
- High standards of execution
- Doing exactly what you say you will do
- Operating with a high level of persistence and integrity
In business, this means having the capacity to deliver on your role. It requires high moral standards and deep personal discipline. Anything less should not be tolerated. Letting it slide creates behaviors you cannot stand behind.
But let’s clarify what “not tolerating” means.
It does not mean immediate dismissal or creating a culture of fear. We are all human. Not tolerating a gap means addressing it immediately through coaching and correction.
The real metric is progress: Are they trying to improve? Is there visible growth?
Most importantly, this standard applies to you first. True leadership is a mirror. You must constantly self-correct and apply your learning to improve daily.
Some things are outside a person’s control. But people have more control than they think. Blaming genetics, environment, or bad luck is a convenient defense mechanism that absolves accountability.
Real leadership means coaching people up, assuming they are open to it.
The goal is not a micromanaged team but a self-policing culture. When individuals work on themselves first, they hold themselves and each other to higher standards.
Achieving this creates a team that refuses to tolerate issues, building a truly elite organization.
This also applies to families, friends, and anyone you spend time with.