In light of this week's new "chosen name and pronouns" policy in Saskatchewan's public school system, I thought I'd share a little personal story. ππ
In elementary school, I wish I had a safe space to learn about others like me and discover myself... somewhere I could, to some small extent, BE ME. I wish I had a much broader gender and sexual diversity education through school then I was exposed to. I wish I had the words to express what I was experiencing. I wish I wasn't terrified that someone might find out how different I am. I wish I felt like I could participate in society as my true self.
From 4 to 49 years of age, I wish I knew what it meant to be trans. I wish I knew that I could be unapologetically proud to be trans. I wish I knew it was normal to NOT BE NORMAL!
Instead, I was ashamed and scared. I repressed and ignored experiences just to fit that societal and familial box I was expected to fit in... In doing so, I accumulated nearly five decades of trauma.
This new, regressive policy benefits no one. For trans and non-binary youth, it removes a safe space that, for many of them, is the only safe space they have to truly learn about and discover themselves.
My best life has occurred since October 2020 when I accepted that I was a transgender woman and subsequently started living my truth. The support and love that I have received from this community is beyond anything I could have imagined. Please, I need you to continue with that support... Not just for me but for all 2SLGBTQIA people.
I hope we can do better in the future for Saskatchewan's 2SLGBTQIA youth.
Love!
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