Not surprised to see a short-sighted, hot take hustle culture take come out of capitalist-pilled, americanized Dutch culture.
The point being missed here is the creation of leverage. As a parent, you can create leverage with various economies: time, money, support, etc.
Also I see this a lot
If you live with your parents at 25
Like I know that's acceptable in some cultures, it definitely isn't acceptable in my culture (Dutch), nor is it acceptable to me as a person
You should be leaving your parent's house at 18 and become independent, spread your wings and fly
You'll never learn about the real world if you get pampered by mom and dad with free rent and free food
So the reason you're not successful is, is maybe this, there's absolutely no incentive for you to become succesful, there's no urgency, you're just satisfied being complacent living in your parent's house
Get out and spread your wings IMHO