I, too, have been given the wrong ruling in an event I cared very much about in the early stages of my Magic career
I, too, lost my shit after it happened and was asked to leave the venue
I was later told the ruling was a poor adjudication of the rules, which did nothing to make me feel better and never has
How true this story is doesn’t really matter to me. It’s very easy to tell someone to “behave a certain way” as a third party. To do so shows a lack of empathy, as well as an inability to put yourself in someone else’s shoes
Some real “Just comply and there won’t be a problem” vibes by people here