if this is about our conversation in dms from months ago i think it should at least be accurate.
i never once straight up said you've been 'performative' or 'don't care'. what i said point blank, was that it constantly felt like you're always trying to be the first white person to bring some varying 'woke' issue up without taking an extra second to consider what exactly you're speaking on.
i am sure you care about the issues you speak on, but i've constantly seen you posting your reactions to these bad comments when you've replied already. you want other people to see you speaking against those comments. i think it's fair to say it often looks like you're seeking praise for them when a lot of your 'woke' takes are simply the bare minimum. that doesn't mean i don't think you care about these issues, but it gets to a point when it's all i saw from you. i think instead of immediately jumping onto topics that don't affect you without a second thought or you acknowledge that you don't have the experience or have gone through the discrimination to speak on, you should retweet sources and uplift voices of people who have been through those struggles and speak up on those issues.
you've spoken over poc a few times too which i pointed out to you. i saw that you thought i was coming at you when i said it can be kind of xenophobic to come after that asian actor in hr's looks for no reason (before a bunch of shit came out about him recently), saying 'is he ugly af or am i too lesbian' and justifying it by saying you 'just don't like the show' and are tired of people getting on you for not liking it. and getting defensive when i said those two things don't correlate. you argued point blank with an arab person who chose to forgive Sabrina carpenter after that whole situation and continued to listen to her music.
you think everything i've quoted on you is an attack rather than taking the critique. i do admit i could have worded my posts in a kinder tone, so i apologize for that. however, you say you hate me, blocked me, then unblocked me, continued to like my posts, and now continue to twist what i told you to get sympathy from people who don't know what was actually said. i know what you say about me in group chats.
replying and posting 'thank you🥹' to those anon asks that said "you're the best american white woman i know" is crazy and the whole reason i said it enables a white savior complex. even if it's not intentional.
you can do what you wish, choose to block me again, talk to your group chats, whatever. but if one thing i said to you in honesty has stuck with you for this long i hope you're able to take a moment, show people verbatim what was actually said, and stop percieving criticism as a personal attack.