deep down, I just wanna love someone without having to worry about if they're going to give up on me on a random day.

Have you ever closed your eyes and felt yourself screaming at the top of your lungs? Tears falling, lips sealed, yet inside everything is breaking apart. No sound leaves your mouth, but the pain echoes through every part of you. Some hurts are so deep that the loudest screams are the ones no one ever hears.

You can't breadcrumb a woman who feeds herself. I have hobbies. I have my career. I have options. If you disappear, I don't spiral. I reorganize.

i never want a man to settle for me. Go find your dream woman, and if you can't find her, don't use me to fill the gap. I want mine clingy, passionate, reassuring, unapproachable, God fearing, and locked in on me only.

Badmouthing someone who used to be your friend or partner is so low and weird. Move on and stop being bitter.

God, if I’m meant to be alone, please take away this constant desire to be loved. Take away the part of me that still looks for someone in every room, the part that still believes there’s a person out there who will finally choose me and stay. Because wanting something this deeply while learning to live without it feels like carrying a quiet ache everywhere I go.

Crazy how avoidants can turn a secure partner into an anxiously attached person, then suddenly leave saying they can’t do this anymore while their partner is left drowning in self-doubt and abandonment trauma.

People who have access to you have no idea how unreachable you are to everyone else, until they become everyone else.

I think someone knowing your heart is fragile and still choosing to do you dirty is a different kind of evil.

The person you loved the most is going to teach you never to love like that again, and that is exactly when you start guarding your peace.

normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.

"Accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others"

It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.

Some nights I still pick up my phone and check for a message I already know isn’t coming. Not because I’m waiting for a text, but because a part of me misses how things used to be. It’s strange how someone can go from being the first person you talk to every day to someone you no longer hear from at all. The conversation ended, but the habit of missing them never really did.

If you show a man you’d die for him. He’ll let you die. Dont be that way sis .D.O.N.T

nobody talks about how scary it is to meet someone who’s exactly your type.

Stop being the GO TO person for someone you can't GO TO!!!!

Being ignored while being apologetic and trynna make things right is frustrating

I think a man planning the entire date is still one of the most attractive things ever.

A dismissive avoidant won’t fight for you. They’ll just wait for you to give up, so they don’t have to be the bad guy. It’s cowardly behavior... Most aren’t honorable, and their character often mirrors their relationship patterns distant, defensive, and dishonest.