Marriage is not defined by age, however, you must be within the legal age to be legally qualified. There are ladies, aged 20 with the brain and composure of a 30-year-old woman, and there are also ladies, aged 30 with the brain of a 16-year-old girl and this is also applicable to men. That being said, early marriage does not guarantee the success of your marriage but gives you an advantage to early childbearing and as such the couple can be 35-25 and their first child could be 12-10. Meanwhile, late marriage also does not guarantee how successful your relationship would perhaps the general assumption here is that, the couple are grown and they should be able to cohabit maturely which is not entirely true. Now, let's leave the aspect of age aside because anyone that meet the legal requirement can marry, let’s focus on what makes marriage work and those factors that can predictably prolong the life span of the marriage/relationship.

Now that the influencer engaged by Bill Gates to spread the acceptance of GMOs in Nigeria has seen the impact of the GMO on Nigerian ginger, I hope he understands the impact of the global agenda

This absolute… She made it straight to the point

Until you join, you will not understand the definition of diplomacy. It will first appear normal until you start drifting from reality and then you realise that all problems are solvable but with politics not solving them, gives politicians an illusion of more problems

This is the ash but undiluted truth coming out of this gathering recently. I love the fact that everyone expresses their opinion without being judgmental, hits the nail on the head, and stands tall for reflective individuals' family values. Marriages are not beds of roses; the graph goes up and down. Some women believe that situations in marriage are going to be consistent in terms of money, agreement, and perhaps business. The test of time will come where you will be tested, the marriage will be tested and the faith of the couple will also be tested.

When hatred obscured your sense of judgement to the extent you called a white clothes to be black, then you are no longer human.

An arsenal fan was stabbed in a carnival in London and died as a result of the incident, his friend went to his grave to celebrate the trophy with him… What a day in a world where only a few will remember you when you are gone. What a wonderful friend to have.

Malice is an act of self-control in a worse situation. You would rather keep things to yourself and maintain your distance from someone who never wants to change.

Some people are blaming Frank for adopting malice in a situation that could have caused him to misbehave and ruin his brand and reputation. For those that care, Keeping malice is an act of communication especially if the person is known to be an active person.

The fact that Frank was creating a scenario-based answer to a question he was being asked during a podcast and people tend to use his responses to undermine the fact that his cheated on him was so alarming.

This perfectly describes the online conversations about Chike, Frank, and Sandra. 😅💀

On silent treatment...

Happy that she survived the cancer but making a video without wearing clothes is bizarre, she is an adult and woman, imagine if her children saw her dancing half-naked perhaps her husband, they may also feel uncomfortable seeing her There are thousands of ways she could have celebrated her win without going shirtless.

This is the same narrative they intend to use to capture people's minds, the opposite is the case. If you are fixated on getting a mortgage without doing any mathematical due diligence, the person might end up in captivity. No financial person will advise you to take a mortgage by paying a 5% deposit and longer repayment terms. The bank knows what they are doing, because its money is secured, whether their customer is dead or alive, and their return on investment is also certain with 98% degree of freedom.

On Marital Kindness Now the dust have settled on Uvo’s divorce, it is important we address the elephant in the room that has made everyone mount the wall of Jericho in their personal lives. Many people are afraid of investing in a partner out of fear of being hurt in return and made to look like a fool. But marriage unites and relationships come with responsibility. If you’re going to marry a person, you have a responsibility to love and to cherish. You have to make them believe because you believe, and give them wings to fly. That is why your vetting process must be thorough and you must take their behavior seriously. There are no guarantees , but it is always better to err on the side of due diligence than blind faith. Many of you have so much to lose and you’re partnered up with someone that has nothing to lose. Long term, investment in the union is mostly one sided. If you are in such kind of partnership, it would be assumed that it is what you like. The sacrifices and investment you make in your partner is meant to improve their life and the overall welfare of the family. Half the time, it works fine and the other half brings tragedy. Nobody can ask you not to love your partner because you chose them and you have a responsibility to love them. However, the words of Jesus must always find its way in your heart - “where your treasure is, that is where your heart will be.” A marriage unites two people as one, including their finances. While there are no guarantees, the odds of commitment are infinitely higher when both parties are fully devoted financially to the union. It already takes devotion to commit your finances, and because your finances are invested, your heart will always be there because you want to reap the rewards. It is easy to be indifferent to a relationship where your finances are not invested. Making money is not enough. You need to understand the bond between the heart and finance. You would think you’re good by carrying all the financial responsibility when you have a working partner, but it might just be the very thing that cracks the wall. Everything you have belongs to the family - quite alright. But everything your partner has also belongs to the family. If you’re the only one investing your finances in the home, it is only your heart that is guaranteed in that home. Investing financially into the home is not just about money and who makes more, it is about ensuring devotion. A person’s heart is always where their money is. Don’t you want to at least be certain your partner’s heart is present? What exactly are they using their money for if it doesn’t go into the family because wherever that money goes, that is where their heart is. It is not unkindness to not want to be the sole investor in a union of two. It is actually kindness that wants mutual kindness. You are both putting the relationship first before self. Even if it goes wrong later in future, at least you know you both brought your best foot forward and invested in it. There would be no malice as with when you solely invested and you’re lamenting about how much you invested into the other person while they did nothing. If it works fine, you can both drink to your deliberate act of love and commitment to each other. Again, where your treasure is, that is where your heart is. There is no exception. Don’t odogwu yourself into self harm. Nobody who loves you holds back their finances. NOBODY!

You have enough time to work on yourself before going in, meaning, you can go in with something and leave with something when you divorce with a prenup. Relationships and marriage are not a means of enriching yourself or escaping poverty. You can always work in as a queen and leave as a queen.

If you are planning to marry a lady and you notice that she is openly supporting cheating and justifying it with different excuses, it is a red sign that she lacks self-respect, dignity and good family values. She is not the type for you.

Cheating is addictive in nature and sometimes it's the driver might not be for financial gain but just for sexual satisfaction. Hence, we see rich men's wives cheating on their millionaire husbands with a bartender, a gateman, or a cleaning lady who is below their spouse's social class, vice versa.

Someone cheated, and her husband divorced her and the whole internet went ablaze over another person's decision. For the record- Cheating is an act of disloyalty irrespective of the circumstances and the gender involved, it is a sign of disrespect to your spouse, especially the spouse who can go above and beyond for you. People hate betrayal and cheating on your spouse is betraying your spouse and people might have zero tolerance for betrayal

This is funny but the fact is there, some men believe that those unexposed girls are better managed and easy to control not knowing that when they eventually get the exposure, they become more dangerous than those who have tasted that exposure before them.

The rate at which S’A is going with their protest against other Africans is alarming. They appear not to have a government controlling the country, the trajectory and the implication of what they are doing now will negatively impact their economy, a few will see an increase in the crime rate, due to unemployment, many displayed people mauruding the street and other locked up stores without being rented out to people. We shall be here to witness the outcome and the trade-off of this decision. This is not patriotism, this is more like an orchestrated attack on fellow brothers and sisters which will end up crippling the economic activities of the affected community or cities.