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19 Aug 2023
I'm no longer using xwitter because it's becoming a joke. Leaving my profile dormant for now.
You can subscribe to my newsletter on openrelating.love or follow me on the other platforms @openrelating
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29 Sep 2023
Solo Polyamory Day - Community Conversations
Watch my interview #solopolyamoryday #openrelating #multigamy
youtube.com/live/4bOW4kI2U-w⦠via @YouTube
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31 Aug 2023
Subscribe to my monthly newsletter, now with question of the month from a follower, answered in full. openrelating.ck.page
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Open Relating π retweeted
29 Aug 2023
@openrelating is doing the Lordβs work.
We often reject labels because we donβt want to limit ourselves. However, I find terminology to be freeing.
Having words to describe the nuances and idiosyncrasies that make you YOU is so damn FREEING.
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Open Relating π retweeted
29 Aug 2023
Absolute gold. This is so freeing.
cc: @openrelating
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Open Relating π retweeted
28 Aug 2023
It's wild how many people think that being polyamorous means you do less -- that you can't commit or care about your relationships.
When really, you're a relationship overachiever. You have multiple loves, you're busy, and you care so much.
And it's wonderful, yet exhausting.
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22 Aug 2023
Just sent out my latest newsletter for August. If you are not a subscriber, you can read it online here: openrelating.ck.page/posts/aβ¦
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18 Aug 2023
I am thrilled to be taking Conscious Play Fighting on the road. In September and October we will be facilitating these fun, exciting and deeply connected experiences:
London - 23 Sep
Manchester - 6 Oct
Nottingham - 7 Oct
Bristol - 8 Oct
openrelating.love/events
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18 Aug 2023
"I was pleased to see how quickly a bunch of bystanders are able to authentically connect with each other on a wide range of levels within the safety of the play space."
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18 Aug 2023
"it provided a space for me to be physical, powerful and playful with others. Wrestling, pushing, grabbing, snarling, rolling around - I loved it. A place to let out my inner animal without inhibition."
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11 Aug 2023
Reconnection after a period apart is helped with some specific partnered rituals.
It is a good practice for any relationship and especially in polyamory if your partner has spent time with another partner/lover.
What is your preferred ritual with different partners?
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11 Aug 2023
One of my partners needs time to get used to me again, and likes to tumble around, bite and sniff me before they are relaxed again in my presence.
With another, I like to sit and eyegaze for a while, staying in connection with our breath.
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10 Aug 2023
Being open in theory is totally different than in practice. You might make some agreements that allow you and your partner freedoms, and trust yourself to handle what unfolds.
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10 Aug 2023
Which is why I urge newly opened partners to focus on becoming better autonomous individuals and better at seeing their partner as an autonomous individual, instead of focusing on making rules.
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10 Aug 2023
The best work is to know how to become better at meeting more of my needs and not being codependent with my partner.
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