Today is the death anniversary of Rituparno Ghosh. Another year to that terrible morning when Rashu-da (photographer Rashbehari Das of The Telegraph) called to say that “I’m hearing the worst about Ritu-da, can you check?”
It was a horrible, horrible morning.
No need to relive that. No need at all. Better to use this day as an excuse to celebrate the luminous man whose storytelling brought an entire generation of Bengali audiences back to the theatres and whose incredible understanding of human relationships made his scripts feel like a mirror held up to our own lives, capturing all our quiet joys, trials, and unspoken tribulations.
I still count my blessings — I must have done something truly wonderful in a past life to have had the privilege of spending so much time with Ritu-da in his final years. To even co-write a script with him still feels like a dream. It started when I went to cast him for my own script, Vanish (the story of that narration is a cherished memory for another day). He loved it so much that he simply looked at me and asked, “Aamar shaathe ekta script likhbi?” (“Will you write a script with me?”)
And so began a beautiful routine. Almost every morning after that, armed with a packet of white dhoklas from Saurashtra Sweets on Southern Avenue, I’d arrive at Tasher Desh, his home in Indrani Park. Together, we poured our hearts into Onno Nayak (The Other Hero), a story of a city superstar navigating the emotional wreckage of his life after his father passes away in their country house.
Those were among the most invigorating, profoundly inspiring weeks of my life. To sit across from him and watch that brilliant mind work aloud was pure magic. I have to share one small anecdote. We were working on a scene where the superstar’s childhood romance drops by to help set up his room at the country house. The superstar had moved on, married, divorced, and now had a new girlfriend in the city; his old flame, Khushi, was also married to someone else.
The superstar casually asks her: “Ki re, tor bachcha kemon achhe?” (“How’s your kid doing?”)
Ritu-da picked up his pen and, writing on a ruled sheet of paper, read aloud the response he was crafting: “Aar Khushi uttor dilo, ‘Chhele naa meye bhule gechho, tai bachcha bolle?’” (“And Khushi replied, ‘You’ve forgotten if it’s a boy or a girl, that’s why you called it a kid?’”)
Ritu-da gently put the pen down, looked me straight in the eyes, and said with quiet conviction: “Eita holo Rituparno Ghosh. Eta tui aar kothao pabi naa.” (“This is Rituparno Ghosh. You won’t get this anywhere else.”)
He was so right. That one piece of dialogue was him. It encapsulated his entire understanding of the human heart. In a single line, he conveyed the whole history of two people who were once intimately close, now navigating the aching awkwardness of meeting years later. The brevity, the profound depth, the quiet drama in those few words defined a mastery accumulated over a lifetime of creating one masterpiece after another. It was the exact genius that gave us Unishe April, Oshukh, Dahan, Chokher Bali, Dosar, Shubho Mahurat, Titli, Raincoat, and countless other cinematic gems. He built all of that simply on the strength of seeing into people's souls and translating that empathy onto paper like absolutely no one else could.
It has been 13 years now, and my god, you were right, Ritu-da. There is nobody like you, anywhere. Never will be.