PartnershipProjects services, training and consultancy in #NVR non violent resistence/systemic work for aggressive, violent, self-destructive behaviours

Joined January 2017
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17 Nov 2023
So Musk has been agreeing with #antisemitic, #racist tweets and re-tweeting these to his followers. I don't want to use this platform any longer, as it's trending towards the fascist language that endangers tolerance, democracy and, ultimately, human beings. Good bye!
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New Podcast šŸ’™šŸ™ "In light of recent events (war) taking our focus, we felt strongly to reflect on what builds peace." With @PeterJNVR & Shila Desai partnershipprojectsuk.com/re… #PartnershipProjects #NVR #NONVIOLENTRESISTANCE #CPVA #cpv #nvrpodcast #nowar #PeaceNotWar #CAMHS #podcast
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24 Sep 2023
This is an excellent opportunity for commissioners, managers and practitioners alike to take a step back and see how #NVR will enhance their organisations' performance and bring them closer to their service development goals and, importantly, their aspirations!
šŸ“£FREE monthly Special Interest Groups (SPIG) virtual sessionsšŸ“£ We are delighted to announce that from October we will be hosting SPIG for NVR professionals partnershipprojectsuk.com/pr… #PartnershipProjects #NVR #NONVIOLENTRESISTANCE #nvrpractitioner #nvrinschools #CAMHS #cpva
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Diagnosing - psychological formulation - we tells people who they are. Alternatives: witnessing distress, witnessing growing agency, supporting resistance to injustice, helping to connect & build community, showing curiosity, professional humility. #NVR #NarrativeTherapy
THIS IS GOING VIRAL SO I WANTED TO SHARE IT HERE TOO: A bit from my past: My first job after getting my PhD was working as a therapist for people from low socioeconomic backgrounds. Almost all of them were diagnosed with depression, GAD, bipolar, or BPD. Most were highly medicated— some to a point that still sticks with me years later. As I got to know their background and lives 3 things were very clear: 1. A vast majority had been emotionally neglected, emotionally abused, or physically abused as children. 2. A vast majority had experienced domestic violence or were currently living in it. 3. Basic needs were never met. Life was an hour by hour struggle. Treatment was an attempt to allow them to get to work in most cases. To just continue to surviving. It was the start of me questioning the field I had been trained in. One that diagnoses people with disorders without taking a look at the whole picture. It began my path of holistic understanding. A person cannot be well when one unexpected bill will have them fall behind on rent. When they lay their head on a pillow and all they can think about is expenses piling up. When a bill at the grocery store is almost double what they paid last year when their income has stayed the same. An entire family unit deeply struggles within survival mode. When a job is lost. When daycare needs to be paid, but so does the light bill— what do you choose? When parents can’t even think about the emotional needs of their children because they have to figure out where their next meal is going to come from. In 1942, 10 years before the diagnostic manual of mental illness was released Maslow knew what was once just common sense: we have a hierarchy of needs. At the bottom are basic needs food and shelter. Then safety (resources, security). Then belonging (connection, friendship, intimacy.) Without three things we *will* be sick, period. I get pushback for questioning the status quo. And I’ll continue to do it. The status quo is keeping people sick. It denies their experience. And it says we should bandage people’s symptoms so they can return to the environment that made them sick. May we wake up, heal ourselves, and build conscious communities to help each other. Retweet if you feel this is true in your body šŸ™
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28 Aug 2023
Morality police attacks a woman not wearing hijab in a car. Watch her fight back despite getting punched in the face. To the undecided men: choose a side. And for the sake of humanity make interventions. This woman is all women of Iran. You’d do well to support them.
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šŸ“£ā° Only 2 weeks until the 'Past, Present & Future of NVR in the UK (& beyond!)' conference! Book now: partnershipprojectsuk.com/pr… #PartnershipProjects #NONVIOLENTRESISTANCE #NVR #nvrpractitioner #nvrconference #CAMHS #therapist #childtoparentabuse #ChildToParentViolence #CPVA
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29 Aug 2023
Just signed. My own work experience, shows the psychological impact that inaction has on young people. Remaining unprotecte and receiving no justice are part of the multi-layered traumatisation - trauma goes on, there's no 'PTSD', just trauma. We must resist inaction #NVR
Our 'NFA Should Not Be The End' campaign aims to ensure that all disclosures made by young people are clearly documented, that all professionals can see the actions taken and that there were no further avenues to take at the time. Sign our petition šŸ‘‰ chng.it/nV9bXQj7B5
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27 Aug 2023
Carrie & David Grant have been talking about how #NVR has helped their family. They challenge the disablist narrative that neurodiverse kids are supposedly unable to self-regulate, and show that these kids can learn.
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27 Aug 2023
And it's time for men to unmask men who do this, or we become bystanders - and bystanding encourages abuse. The skewing of reality that has always been imposed on women and children is being legitimised by populist movements, and that we must #resist.
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25 Aug 2023
If you think fertilized eggs are people but parents who've crossed the oceans with their kids aren't, stop pretending your concerns are religious.
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'Psychiatry will not find it easy to abandon its biomedical framework but it needs to do so in the interests of patients.'
Relational psychiatry: Psychiatry needs to abandon its biomedical framework criticalpsychiatry.blogspot.…
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20 Aug 2023
Never tell a little girl that when a boy is mean or rude to her it's because he has a crush on her. Don't teach her that abuse is a sign of love.
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15 Aug 2023
In Iran if a 12-year-old girl is raped and impregnated by her father, she must carry the baby to term, or be thrown in prison for life. Wait, sorry, no. That's Mississippi.
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16 Aug 2023
A fraudulent expert witness is bad enough, but even worse is that a mother-blaming assessment fits with broader parent/mother-blaming discourses in society. It should be abundantly clear that abuse and violence need to be taken seriously.
Mother files for protection order against abusive father who was sexually assaulting her post-separation. Custody evaluator brands mother 'manipulative' and 'abusive' for doing so and said this reflected poorly on the mothers' parenting skills. denvergazette.com/premium/ht…
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14 Aug 2023
Some more #antidepressants: sense of belonging, being perceived as mattering to others, justice, feeling appreciated for what we do...
This is for anyone who believes in a chemical imbalance & antidepressant drug. Real antidepressants: Love, exercise, sleep, nutrition, nature, sex, creativity, sun, safety, friendship, purpose, spirituality, learning, helping, music, meditation, empathy, health What else?
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Abusers and systems and structures work hand in hand. Abusers would not be anywhere near as 'successful' in causing harm if systems weren't enabling them.
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11 Aug 2023
Child protection procedures are there to do just that - protect children - but we also need to help foster carers cope with the distress caused by false allegations. What is the percentage of allegations where there was found no case to answer? This should inform the discussion.
Foster care workers experience "confusion, destruction of confidence & dismay" during allegations. Procedurally fair processes that uphold foster care workers human rights are essential. Allegations policy & practice is a retention issue that needs addressed. #JoinaUnion
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11 Aug 2023
And there's been language of "defending our borders", casting these desperate people as a threat. That is disgraceful.
ā€˜4 million people emigrated to this country in the last five years of which 3% risked their lives in small boats’ Times Radio
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10 Aug 2023
My book - so far in German (Dem Trauma Widerstand Leisten - literal translation: Resisting Trauma). Currently translating it into English. Suggested title: "Resisting Trauma with Non-Violent Resistance: A Systemic Approach to Therapy and Social Care" What do people think?
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And public attitudes that blame victims give ammunition to this kind of gaslighting by offenders! We must #resist victim-blaming misogynistic discourses! #NonViolentResistance #NVR
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