This is complete bullshit.
Most women want to believe this simply because their narcissism tells them they are infallible, and all events must be someone else’s problem.
After all, they faked who they are for attention from a very young age, learning makeup matters alot more than truth.
Since they chased the attention rather than learning who they were, they say “oh I lost my identity” after they get married. Complete dissolution sets in at some point because they figure out they are simply part of a family, only offered love and unity, and no longer showered by continuous admiration/narcissistic supply. They find out they are just normal.
Ultimately, when reality of life hits, they can’t handle the truth, because finances and real life aren’t always pretty, so in being hearing “no” the first time in their lives, they can only respond with cold hearted separation, and instead turn to the closest man who has no regard for others and the undying love her husband has for this woman - and she turns to the only thing she has to make her get more narcissistic supply.
Yes, she spreads herself to be the center of a strangers attention, meanwhile ruining every ounce of faith, trust, and love that her man has with her.
Then she has to fend only for herself and have an all out war against her new found enemy, do anything to take the kids, all the money, smear his name, and inform the world how yet another man is so awful and how she is so pure and simply wronged.
All of this happens just to deflect from the one universal truth - that it was her narcissism that was and always will be the problem. The one problem she can never even admit, and hides at all costs. The one problem our society and court system completely refuses to see.
Men: “Women initiate most divorces.”
Correct.
Women also initiate most breakups, most therapy, most emotional labor, and most attempts to fix things before leaving.
Men just initiate most denial and most problems.