My MIL sat down across the table from me, one week postpartum, and matter-of-factly told me sheād like to pay for our house cleaner, since she didnāt leave nearby and couldnāt be as helpful as sheād like.
This was my 3rd baby, but my 1st with my husband.
The 2nd time I had a baby, my in-laws lived 2 doors down and were MIA.
The 1st time I had a baby, I was a single mom. My mom went on vacation the next day.
My MILās generosity re-wired my brain