I just wasted 4 days in Portugal
went on a stag do.. no deep work, no journaling, no cold plunges, no "optimising my morning routine from the hotel room."
just beer, terrible decisions, and the best laughs I've had in months.
and the business? it kept running. clients got delivered to, team handled everything, revenue didn't dip, but apparently that's not how you're supposed to do it..
there's this weird culture online where every moment has to be optimised. like you can't go on holiday without filming a "what I learned" video. can't go to the gym without it being about discipline and mindset. can't have a beer without feeling like you should be working instead.
I used to feel guilty about time off. like if I wasn't at my desk I was falling behind. every hour not working was an hour someone else was getting ahead of me.
took me years to realise that the whole point of building a business was so I could go on a stag do in Portugal and not think about work.
I checked my phone for 20 minutes each morning with a sore head, replied to a few leads, then check in on the team, that was it.
not because I'm disciplined. because the systems are built properly. the team knows what to do, the processes are documented, projects have owners. nobody needed me..came back yesterday, nothing was broken.
(apart from my sleeping pattern)
"The flexible in between"
I strive when I feel like striving. I rest when I feel like resting. some weeks I'll work 50 hours because I'm building something and I'm in the zone. other weeks I'll play golf 3 times and reply to emails from a coffee shop.
the business performs the same either way.
not everything has to be a growth hack. sometimes the most productive thing you can do is disappear for a few days with your mates and come back actually wanting to work again.
build something that lets you do both. that's the whole point.