I own an 8-figure holdco, I sold a startup to Google, I have a loving wife and kids. I believe you can have it all. Here are my top 10 books that will change your life: 1. The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida The secret to understanding intimate relationships, the masculine and the feminine.

The Awakening process is different for everyone. Everyone goes through a different path to find their way to liberation. So what will it look like for you? It looks like your life. Your life exactly as it has happened, exactly as it's happening, exactly as it will happen. That is your spiritual path That is your Awakening Your life is your Awakening Exactly as it is right now. This is it. Everything that is happening, is for the purpose of your Awakening. You're getting closer every moment. Bow to every moment with that knowing.

Vajrayana is the poetry of existence beyond space and time

The whole universe is constantly breathing in And breathing out Creating Destroying Birthing Dying Breathing in The magic of love appears Sensation, color, light and life Wow Breathing out It all fades Like a star extinguishing After a lifetime of shining an infinite frequency spectrum But why breathe out? Why not keep the magic present all the time? Experience happens through change Anything 'permanent' fades from awareness Like the colored glasses you forgot you are wearing We experience the first derivative The flow not the state To experience love we need to experience no love Then love Then no love again Now we know what love is And we want to breathe in again Then out again Forever But who is breathing?

A powerful man doesn't complain that his woman is "too emotional". He understand that she's more sensitive to the currents of life than he is. It's a superpower. And he can wield it to achieve his goals instead of trying to dampen it.

The stoicism popular among entrepreneurs today is cargo cult. True stoicism comes from wisdom and deep understanding, not from forcing yourself to be stoic. Focus on wisdom first.

Money is a form of power and energy. Taking on large amounts of debt often means wielding power you haven't yet learned to wield, which is why many fail. Know your level of money mastery.

Your woman's "complaints" are encrypted messages. Decode them with your heart, not your mind.

Men: Your woman can't trust you if you're disconnected from your body and heart. She needs you present and responsive to protect her. Get out of your head.

Release the primal tension that prevents you from fully experiencing reality. Notice where you habitually contract and resist sensations. Practice opening and relaxing into intense experiences rather than tensing and trying to control them. This is how you expand your capacity.

Therapy heals trauma. Spiritual practice builds capacity. You probably need both.

Love isn't just a feeling - it's where you place your attention. Want to love more? Pay more attention.

The feminine craves love like the masculine craves emptiness. She feels pain when she's not receiving enough love. He feels pain when his stillness and freedom is interrupted.

It's not about avoiding friction. It's about becoming good at handling friction with grace.

The true meaning of discipline isn't forcing yourself. It's removing the resistance to what needs to be done.

Your woman wants you to experience complete freedom. That's why she pushes your buttons. If you are still afflicted by unconscious emotional reactions, you aren't truly free.

There are two approaches to intensity: avoidance (repression, tension, numbness) or adaptation (feel it fully, open, surrender). You want the latter. Train your nervous system so that intensity becomes normal. Practice this through meditation, cold exposure, etc.

The secret to avoiding suffering: experience emotions fully in your body instead of creating mental stories about them.

Science explains mechanisms and how things work. But it doesn't explain why things work, or why anything exists at all. That's spirituality's domain.

Want to build trust instantly? Stop living in your head. People can feel when you're present in your body vs lost in thoughts.

Wealth hack: If you want to get rich, you have to enjoy the process of MAKING money more than you enjoy the process of SPENDING money. If you're not enjoying the game you'll give up.