Flash news - Gojo is actually a dream boyfriend and creator of the manga (a woman, btw) created him that way intentionally. And it works, every girl who reads My Dress-up Darling swoons over him and is jelaous of Marin.
Yup. Boom.
I finished both Nagatoro and My Dress-Up Darling. In no way would boys like Hachiouji and Gojo land girlfriends like Nagatoro and Marin. In no way would girls like Nagatoro and Marin be nice to boys like Hachiouji and Gojo.
It's fiction. That's the point of it.