Bisexuals do not have to be:
* equally attracted to all genders
* attracted to all genders all the time
* polyamorous
* sexually active
* visibly queer
... to be fully bisexual.
I just read the times article about cis men's opinions about abortion and forgot it completely because ... cis men's opinions about abortion do not fucking matter at all.
Do you know what’s a fun Twitter game? Ask your followers how tall you are. There are a ridiculous amount of people here that accurately predict height from vibes.
Hi! it’s your bi mom! Reminding you:
- good enough is good enough
- you can be bi and not like sex
- nobody is fine now and that makes everything harder. Anxiety is airborne.
- you belong and deserve a caring community.
- cherish the allies who see and embrace your whole self
I don't typically tweet about agents' rejections (as I also don't tweet about requests). But I received a rejection on a full today, for my "queer roller derby YA," because, the agent told me, he'd discovered I am married to a man. Ouch. 1/3
A friend just told me this and OF COURSE—
We queers deserve clarity and actual expressed interest.
And I’ll add —- we often accept less if we are still learning how to be healthy and vibrantly queer in a way that is true to ourselves. #bisexual#queerlove
I have lived and seen these patterns of deep and real love between queers suddenly imploding because we don’t have a map for navigating all the nuance. It’s normal fears of vulnerability which is hard. It’s also shame and a kind of starvation that makes it hard to be measured.
Hi to all the Kinsey 1.1’s and all the Kinsey 5.9’s you’re all perfect bisexuals.
(The Kinsey Scale is a flawed model but useful shorthand - the gender binary is a lieeeeeee)
I apologize for not posting about #TDOR yesterday. I’m not super engaged #onhere.
I stand with the Trans community. No one should ever be at risk of violence or abuse by virtue of their gender.
Gender assigned at birth is a patriarchal narrative about genitalia and that it is sometimes correct on an individual basis does not mean that this approach to gender assignment is any more legitimate than determining career paths based on hair color.
Bi brunch today was magical. I think this is in person brunch number 24, with a big break for the pandemic.
It feels so good to hear people say that they feel so seen and connected.
This experience needs to be less rare for us. We need more spaces.
#KyleRittenhouse murdered people in cold blood, claiming that those marching for Black Lives were a threat. He was found innocent because the courts uphold white supremacy.
America has always been racist. We must take care of ourselves and each other and continue to #resist
Your Bi Mom Here:
- the dynamics in your family of origin do not have to be your destiny
- people’s toxic behavior is hurtful but not about you
- a holiday is just a day; how it plays out has nothing to do with how loved you are. You deserve love, w/o conditions
- drink water :)