babygirl genius
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May 26
i wish platonic abuse was more openly discussed because i think it’s different from standard bullying in social groups. like abuse isn’t unique to romantic relationships. you can still be psychologically, emotionally, or physically abused in friendship too.
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I might not notice I'm being annoying but having 0 patience, not telling me, and proceeding to isolating/treating me badly for it isn't any less ableistic
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RT @ona_nky: Men are naturally mean. They fake niceness only when they know there’s a sexual or romantic opportunity. Look at how they trea…
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every autistic person needs their translator
my husband is that friend, who softly always lets me know if I'm interrupting/getting too intense in a mundane convo or sth, or stops me when i stim hurting myself
and also who defends me when i do things that are "weird", uncommon but harmless and just bring me joy (ᵔᴥᵔ)
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Jun 13
the funny thing is thinking of like 100 different possible reasons for why people are upset and it’ll be the most tiny harmless mistake that never even crossed your mind. or just existing. that’s my favorite one. just being in proximity to people.
Jun 12
“oh autism just makes people hate you for no reason” no autism makes you unable to recognize it when you’re doing something that’s making people hate u
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Jun 13
i do think there’s a group of people who merely dislike us for no reason or for some ineffable issue or disgust. but there’s also the blind bull in a china shop dynamic where you have no clue how many times you fucked up or why you’re being received negatively.
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The best friend an autist can have is the one who kindly-but-firmly says "hey man, you're making people uncomfortable" followed by clearly explaining what it is you're doing.
Source: experience, thank you [redacted]
Jun 12
“oh autism just makes people hate you for no reason” no autism makes you unable to recognize it when you’re doing something that’s making people hate u
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Jun 13
or how the likelihood that you’re autistic but not traumatized is exceedingly rare. just on SA statistics alone, more than 3/4 of autistic adults report experiencing SA. some data showing 9 in 10 for autistic women. that’s only one area of trauma where we’re more vulnerable.
I am sick of the misdiagnosis of traumatized autistic people and the watering down of symptoms people experience / their lived experiences and the constant argument of “you can only have trauma OR autism” when the convo should be how you can have BOTH
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Jun 13
it reveals how little they know or if they care to be up to date about ASD. there’s plenty of research proving the prevalence of the comorbities or trauma in general. it’s so ubiquitous that it shouldn’t take research to make it seem believable. then again, that’s how we think.
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Jun 13
it’s frustrating bc when that sentiment comes from autistic people, it’s a more attractive idea to allistics who already hate us, and their ill-informed bullshit gets circulated. i ultimately think it’s more political than a concern for truth or verified research.
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Jun 13
RT @knovastreams: AUTISTIC PEOPLE ARE MORE LIKELY TO HAVE TRAUMA DISORDERS BC THEY ARE MORE LIKELY TO BE ABUSED!!!!!
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i tried to make another rice heart but it fell apart 💔 anyway beautiful salmon
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Jun 12
or like showing basic interest at all. they don’t hesitate to neg or degrade the women they’re “interested” in and act shocked when it’s poorly received.
Jun 12
Making a woman feel safe is the secret to attraction that the redpill never quite got
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i almost compared them to beavis and butthead but i think that’s disrespectful to beavis and butthead. incels/redpillers make them look like gentlemen.
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