i think what's really going on here is that a lot of you people are less pro-choice than you like to think. you still implicitly view a fetus as a child so the conversation ends up being about "aborting a disabled child" rather than aborting a.....fetus
nope. consent to having a child is consent to having a disabled child. if you cannot handle the idea of a disabled child, you should not be trying to reproduce. healthcare would solve your argument in the first place, but you do not need to be a billionaire to afford healthcare.