Promoting the Philosophy of #NoStrollers and radically accelerating early childhood literacy 🙏🏼Read & share the No Strollers Pamphlet (linked in bio). #Aloha

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GM. #NoStrollers parenting has been the focus of this page and will remain so but going forward I will be adding several other parenting foci that have had profoundly positive and important impacts on my children and family. 1. *Socratic dialogue*. Thanks to Michael Strong @flowidealism for showing the way here and helping our family wield this proven, powerful, free educational (and relationship building) too. Shout out to Socrates, too. I will be sharing clips and links to the YouTube page that Michael and my now 12 year old daughter have been building since Alana was 3.5 demonstrating the what, why, how, and IMPACT of Socratic dialogue. Here is the Michael-Alana YT, and a recent representative clip is attached. youtube.com/@socraticmichael… 2. *Early Childhood Literacy*. If you are unaware, literacy levels in the USA are deplorable. The 'reading gap' is an active tragedy mentally crippling more than half of the young people in America. As a parent to be I was determined my child would be a a strong and early reader. Drawing upon my time as a volunteer reading tutor to 4th and 5th graders (!!) In San Diego, I composed alternate lyrics to the ABC song about how to read (the mechanics of reading), dubbed 'The Secind Verse to the ABCs.' My wife and I sang this verse to our children as often or more than any other kids song. We sincerely believe the 'Second Verse' strongly contributed to our children reading and comprehending chapter books by age 4. Reading well at a young age opened the world for them, as it did for me as a child. Almost nothing matters more than fostering a love of learning and strong reading skills at a young age. I hope you will sing and widely share the Second Verse. A few years ago I published a children's book of the same title featuring child-led Socratic dialogue to teach reading, and I will be sharing that as well (foreword by @MarkVHansen -- ty again Sir -- and afterword by Michael Strong). A soft cover version is available on Amazon and I have a couple hundred original hardcovers available too (DM me if interested). In the meantime, teach and sing the Second Verse to children! 3. *Healthy Kids Food". We raised children whose default is enjoy healthy foods including liver and sardines. I'll be sharing some of what worked for us. And yes I am anti-goldfish. Finally, don't forget that strollers (and mental strollers aka tablets) are suboptimal and deprive children of an enormous amount of invaluable time in the stream of life. Abandon them! Thank you for your interest and I hope you will share this post. Aloha. #homeschool #ParentingTips #parenting #socratic #socraticdialogue #newborn #toddlers #readingcommunity #literacy #kindergarten
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Amazing!!
USA. A backyard. One man guarding a grill for four hours. He never left it once. Everyone else drifted and drank and laughed. But one man stood alone before the flames, turning meat with a long fork, immovable. I knew him at once. The keeper of the sacred fire. I took my place beside him and said nothing. After a while, he spoke. "Low and slow," he said, eyes on the coals. "You can't rush it. Rush it, you ruin it." I bowed my head. A blade, a tea, a life. None can be rushed. I had crossed four thousand miles to hear my grandfather's words from a man in a "KISS THE COOK" apron. "Everything worth doing is slow," I agreed. He glanced at me. Something passed between us. "My wife says just use the oven." He shook his head at the fire. "She doesn't get it." "They never do," I said. And this is where it turned. For the first time in years, this man had been understood. And he rose to meet it. His back straightened. His voice dropped low. A teenager reached for the grill and the man lifted one hand without even looking. "Not yet." The boy retreated. He was becoming what I already believed him to be. A woman asked when the food would be done. "It's ready when it's ready," he told the flames. Three people approached. Three were turned away with a single word. By the fourth hour, no one questioned him. The whole party had arranged itself around the man and his fire, the way a village arranges itself around a shrine. Then he handed me the fork. "Watch it a sec. I gotta pee." I have been trusted with castles. I have never been more honored. He served everyone before himself, and ate last, standing, still watching the coals. We never traded names. We did not need to. He believed he had finally met a man who took his cooking seriously. I believed I had finally met America's last samurai. Neither of us will ever correct the other. So tell me, America. Who is the man at your gathering who will not leave the grill? Have you ever once asked him why? I think he is still standing there. Guarding the fire. Waiting for one person to understand.
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Tablets are a horrible destructive option occupying coddling and softening the minds of children while also diverting them from natural, beneficial life engagement opportunities. This kid is entombing himself into a digital stroller while a world class athletic event carries on just outside him; he isn't even running amok with other children, no making friends, no jungle gym beneath the bleachers. Just YouTube, games, ads. What a tragedy. 100000% WORSE than cigarettes
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Hello. Happy Friday! Walk amd carry, and carry and walk on!
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This is in some ways the most pathetic stroller I have ever seen. Well, at least she is walking.
The younger generation is cooked with parenting like this
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Thanks for considering No Strollers!
I can already tell that the @strollerno guy is right because when your baby is in a carrier, people out on the street interact with them and the baby interacts back and when they’re in a stroller people ignore them!
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Homeschool grappling (jj and wrestling) outdoors (in our case ocean but do you!) Works great and F the haters. You can substitute anything you want but homeschool and it'll work
As he says, it is worse than you can imagine: “Walk through an average middle school or high school classroom today. You’ll see kids sprawled on desks. Heads down. Talking while the teacher talks. Zero attention. Zero respect. The disrespect is normal now. And then there’s the other side of it... This is the part parents really need to understand: SCREENS Districts are spending your tax dollars putting kids in front of iPads and laptops all day long. Research from the RAND Corporation found that a typical U.S. student spends up to 52% of their school day on a digital device. That is daycare with a Wi-Fi bill.”
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No Strollers salute, but... hey its vintage, artisinal, organic, cultural (gulp), trad, um... no tablets present, no goldfish, that's grest... and hopefully it's not rooted in a form of corporal punishment haha.
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Tablets are mental strollers that apparently cause loss of white matter among other maladies. Strollers are mobile staycations that deprive children of natural opportunity to develop social, interpersonal, and physical experience, skills, and endurance. Intentionally limiting to the greatest extent possible use of mental and bodily containers at formative ages is good! Let's go!
This MRI study on young kids just exposed something terrifying: They scanned the brains of 60 children aged 3–5 — including 5-year-old Rose — and found interactive screen time is causing measurable loss of white matter in their developing brains. Even just 2 hours a day is linked to impaired neural connectivity, language, and literacy development. Professor Mike Nagel (neuroscientist and father) said his first reaction was simply: “Wow… I was not anticipating seeing anything like that.” We’re physically changing children’s brains before they even start school — and the damage is visible on scans. This one actually unsettled me. I’ve always suspected too much screen time was bad, but seeing real white matter loss in toddlers hits different. Parents of little ones — has this kind of research changed how much screen time you allow?
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What a flex lol congrats Sir and SpaceX team!!!
Starship is the most powerful moving object ever made
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Hello Japan X! I am an American from Hawaii now living in San Diego, California. I'm grateful that X has made it possible to communicate with Japanese people through automatic translation and I wish to share a story from 2010 where I made a Japanese friend here in San Diego through Google Translate just after the Android Translate app had launched. It is amazing that 15 or 16 years later what occurred on a bar stool in San Diego through the Google Translate app is now a real time on X. I have appreciated reading your posts and learning more about your life and culture and I hope you will appreciate this story.  I was in law school in San Diego and frequented a local Irish bar. One night, the bar was crowded and a Japanese man dressed in a business suit came in. I was a waiter for many years in Hawaii and had served many Japanese guests so I recognized him as being Japanese and presumed he did not speak English well. The bar was packed but there was one bar stool open next to me. I signaled to him, pointed at the barstool and gestured for him to sit down. My Japanese is very limited and I know it was the incorrect thing to say because it was late at night but I said “Ohayo.” he was very surprised but also appreciative of the gesture and attempt to greet him in his language. He sat down next to me and looked lost. I asked the bartender for a menu and gave it to him. He looked at me and said “Whiskey.” I pointed to the area on the menu that listed the whiskey available. As he looked through it, I remembered that my wife had recently downloaded the Google Translate app on my phone. So I opened the app and typed a welcome message, translated it into Japanese and showed it to him. He was very surprised but also appreciative of the gesture. He read the message, took my phone, and wrote a message in Japanese that was translated into English. Over the course of perhaps one hour we had the equivalent of a 5-minute conversation. He told me he was an engineer brought to San Diego to meet with some business people to build a solution to make one machine speak to another machine. We spoke abput our mutual interest in mixed martial arts and especially how much we both respect Kazushi Sakuraba! Long story short, we made plans to eat dinner the next night at my favorite sushi restaurant, Kazumi, a mile up the street. He was staying at a hotel near where I lived so I told him to meet me at 7:00 at the hotel and we would catch a cab to the restaurant. I gave him my cell phone number. The next evening I went to the hotel but he was not there. I asked the hotel to call his room and they did but there was no answer. So I went home. 30 minutes later I got a phone call from an unknown number, answered it, and it was the staff at the sushi bar restaurant telling me that my friend, Toshiya, was that the restaurant with some business associates and wanted me to come. So I went to the restaurant. He was there with two other business associates, one of whom was apparently the big guy, and had ordered several hundred dollars worth of Wonderful food. We ate and enjoyed a wonderful evening, his business partners told me that they took him to a gun range so that he could shoot American firearms for the first time. We all had a great time.  After dinner he wanted to go back to the bar to try more oishi whiskey so we caught a cab to the bar, Stout Public House on 6th Avenue between B and C streets. After getting a couple of drinks we were sitting on the patio talking through Google Translate app. Suddenly he seemed very worried and afraid. He spent close to 20 minutes writing me a message on the app. In short, he said that the big man, the businessman, had put several ammunition cartridges in his pocket after the day at the range. He was very concerned because he did not know what to do with his ammunition. He was very concerned it was illegal. He was very worried about what to do with the ammunition. [Continues in comment]
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He had a flight to catch early in the morning and he was very, very worried about having the ammunition. When he finally gave me back the phone and I could respond to his message I let him know that it was okay, this is America, ammunition is legal. I told him that I would take the ammunition from him so that he would have no worries and he could get to the airport safely. He was so relieved! I did so, I took the several ammunition cartridges home. We had a couple more drinks but my friend was very drunk. So myself and my Sardinian friend, mauricio, basically carried him up the hill to his hotel. We let the hotel staff knew that he needed a wake up call very early in the morning so he could catch his flight.  He emailed me a few days later from Japan letting me know that he got home safe, and he asked if everything was okay with the ammunition LOL. I told him it's okay it's America I would make use of the ammunition.  I hope my friend Toshiya from Niigata is well. Aloha to Japan from Hawaiian Ryan aka No Strollers in San Diego.  I am asking any Japanese person who reads this to click the link in my bio and translate and read the No Strollers Pamphlet and let me know what you think about it. Thank you very much PS: if there is any interest in this post I will share some of what we communicated with by email after he went back to japan. Thank you very much!!
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Children benefit from every moment in life. All they can learn is what you expose them to. Wherever you are whatever you do, having them on the ground or in your arms listening and learning and living is the most you can do. No strollers maximizes the experiences that you can provide your child while they are young. It's simple, free, and fun. Get after it.
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アメリカ人にこの漢字をプレゼントする。 他人に左右されず、自分が信じた生き方、信念、または得意とする分野を突き進めという意味だ。
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Yes!! Thank you Michael for working with Alana and other children to show the way!!
A father watched my YouTube dialogues and started having Socratic conversations with his own children. No curriculum needed. Just a parent asking good questions about what they read together. Intellectual culture can spread one family at a time. You don't need permission to start.
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Yes. Although the actual schooling part takes more like 3 to 5 hours for my family, lots of learning going on, curriculum being met, art classes, music. Jujitsu and wrestling occupies another 2 to 3 hours a day
How long does homeschooling take each day? If you are doing it well, it takes 24 hours each day. The academics of it all only take 1-2 depending on the ages of the kids, but homeschooling takes 24 hours a day. We line to refer to it by its less commonly used name; parenting.
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I receive good insights as to why No Strollers is prohibitive from the 14% of parents with three or more children. (They make good points.) The 86% of American parents with two or less children make up most of the resistance and they need (and are positioned) to take No Strollers to heart and pracroce. The families with real adaptive physical and neurological challenges that make parenting, much less No Strollers, extremely difficult don't whinge much because in my experience they principally get the concept and, I think, desperately wish they could No Stroller their children. If you are at all physically able to No Stroller your kids DO IT. Read why here: drive.google.com/file/d/12qr…
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Salute to the 14% with 3 or more children!!!!
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This plus peaceful parenting is wveryrhi. Add to that healthy foods and making sure your children aren't picky eaters.
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Don't use strollers when you have children. Do everything you can to make your children strong early readers. Make Socratic dialogue a habit. Get your kids on the Warrior Kid path [see/use the Warrior Kid Anthology by @jockowillink]. The rest will fall into place. Enjoy!!! drive.google.com/file/d/12qr…
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Looking forward to this!!!
I've been working for a while now on a doc that combines the wisdom of Socratic conversations (a la @flowidealism and @strollerno ) with Egan's ideas of wonder. Every parent should have the best tools to give their child the greatest appreciation and comprehension of life
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