the first step to addressing your anti blackness is to look within. no amount of information i could give you would ever do justice to you doing your own research will, trust me. you need to deconstruct these things yourself, not expect the black people in your life to do it.
GIMMICK TIME BEFORE I LEAVE!
1) YES I AGREE!!!!! she would definitely make him match t shirts with her at leastβ¦
2) and no. i dont think iβll be answering that. deconstruct your own internalized racism and donβt treat black people like google, please. thank you.