remember a few months ago when vanessa hudgens was like about to give birth and this image of her out in public with the belly out went viral for being "gross" and "a bit much" and i lost my mind on the tl? no one knew it yet but i was pregnant and i would have been defensive of her regardless but i have now reached similar levels of largeness and discomfort and not-giving-a-fuckness and i just want to reiterate my my deepest FUCK YOU to anyone who fought me on that, especially the men, because you really have no idea what you're talking about and women deserve so much more grace for going through this to bring a child into the world for you my belly is so large (i literally have to get an emergency ultrasound bc my OB is concerned about its size) that the skin is itchy af just from being stretched and any fabric touching it feels unbearable so if we look this large and ugly and we're still letting the belly hang out there's a reason and u should stay respectful about it

draping