You see, qadar scares me a lot! How much do you try to avoid a thing and still carefully walk into it cause it's in your qadar? You can't be too careful, you just can't.

People are too quick to put others on a pedestal...

LRT Even though the sister's concern is valid, the Idea that financial independence is all you need to win all the time is laughable sha

Make your biggest fear unavailability of sufficient funds. Sis with plenty money na you go dey run the show for all of them. In fact, they will be bringing the gist to you fully translated where you sit, infact they will book appointments to bring gist to your house even Money fixes most nonsense in many marriages and many polygamy. Be the wife with the most money and capacity, the rest na small thing. Build serious capacity my Sisters. Please endeavour to be able to call the shots with serious money. Ask Allah for Massive Rizk to silence every side talks. You will pay for all caterers at events, send servers, so many that no woman will need to raise a finger, they only supervise and arrive at events after 3pm geared up by the best designers in town. Na dem go even collect your bags and announce that 'Mummy ti de' and this has nothing to do with how old you are by the way. They will call you mummy irrespective, na your money they run am. Please my Sisters Go and build serious capacities,develop yourselves, build your self esteems, do that course, change that career, Make Shit loads of money and above all pray ceaselessly, you will win big. That's the formula

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Single MUSLIMAH, for Allah's sake, avoid any complicated relationship with any man. Always be clear, you're either married to him or NOT.

You people saying he should approach someone using the niqaab already are not real sha.

Words don't carry even a fraction of what I feel for you in my heart.

all become extraordinarily rich, but having something set aside could make a significant difference if your daughter ever finds herself in a difficult or threatening marriage. Teach your daughters survival skills. Do not raise them for marriage alone. Before they are wives,...

them up to tolerate neglect and abuse out of fear of having nowhere to go. Be meticulous when researching the man seeking your daughter's hand in marriage, do your due diligence and place your trust in Allah for the best outcome. Build wealth, no matter how little. We may not..

permissible Maybe it is time we started probing the reasons sisters are clamouring for financial independence instead of merely scratching the surface of the discussion. We need to start holding our brothers accountable. Many do not fully understand or fulfil their...

Root causes of many of the challenges we face. Increasingly, sisters are telling themselves that they need to be financially independent. Islam does not obligate a woman to work and earn, neither does it prohibit her from doing so, provided it is within the boundaries of what is

of the fact that these painful situations exist. The truth is that if some women had even a little financial ability or support, they would walk away from abuse instead of enduring it. The Muslim community often focuses too much on superficial matters while neglecting the...

stories about the realities some of our sisters face at the hands of those entrusted with their care and protection. I am all for beautiful marriages where both spouses strive to fulfil their responsibilities to the best of their abilities. However, we should not act oblivious..

I guess one thing I dislike about arguments on this street is the dishonesty that comes with different arguments.

Are there consumer psychologists in Nigeria?

Muraqabah Muhasabah Tazkiyah In that order...

one thing about me is that i'll run away from you. i'll run away from you if you stress me, i'll run away from you if you make my life hard and i'll run away from you if you intentionally remain oblivious and selfishly petulant.