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Your role is to safeguard your team’s time so they can focus on the most important things. Is the meeting necessary? Or can it be discussed in an email or project thread? Or is it status quo and can be removed or redefined? theceoffice.substack.com/p/y…
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Got to see this little gem of a coffee place on a Midwest road trip. Definitely worth a detour off the main road. 💚☕️ maps.app.goo.gl/Aw27DpTC2p6W…
If you’re ever driving RT 47 in Illinois, please stop by my cousin’s new coffee shop and bakehouse in Strawn, IL. It’s a beautiful thing they did for their rural community, and they’re kind people. Kairos Bakehouse is the name and an architectural gem with handbaked goods.
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Classic 😂 Kids’ memory is elite. Don’t say anything you can’t/won’t fulfill. They’ll teach you quick to be a better manager of expectations. 💞
Good morning beautiful people.. We just got done with quite a distraction Olympics to get baby girl Kenz aht of quite a tantrum.. Somebody (me) said that she could have “ice cream tomorrow” last night to get her to go to bed.. classic “let’s make some promises for another time” parenting.. my assumption was that the 3 year old would forget I said that First words out of her mouth when she woke up this morning at 7:30AM.. “ICE CREAM TIME” Told her she can’t be eating ice cream at 7:30AM or she’ll end up on “My 500 pound life”.. I even showed her a picture of what could happen. “I don’t care.. you told me ice cream today” She lost her shit.. I can’t blame her.. imma have to be a bit more descriptive with my future promises. After some very serious negotiating, that involved Horsey as a mediator at times.. we settled on some Chocolate protein milk. The ice cream window is not closed.. I merely only kicked this DAHN the proverbial road again.. It is VERY expected that AS SOON as I get home from work later, ice cream will be expected.. I will let her know that she has to do a few laps around the house before she can dive into the sweet frozen dairy nectar from the Gods I love this girl so much.. she has taught me so many things since coming into this world.. setting proper expectations is certainly one of them. I’d like to wish a big “GOOD LUCK” to @MrsMcAfeeShow as she manages this contract dispute today.
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Humongous American flags, Route 66, steeples, grazing cattle, and big blue skies. 🇺🇸💙
If you want to hate America watch the news, if you want to love America drive across it. 🇺🇸
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Melissa | theceoffice retweeted
It's not an under-16 social media ban, it's digital IDs with better marketing
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In honor of Flag Day 🫡 🇺🇸 Old Glory at Chicago’s Union Station.
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Out here encouraging the skills for future trillionaires. ☀️🍋
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Melissa | theceoffice retweeted
Saturday Preparedness Challenge Set a timer for 10 minutes. That's it. Try to knock out a few of these tasks: ✓ Charge your power banks. ✓ Update your emergency contacts. ✓ Take photos of any new insurance cards or documents. ✓ Confirm your family's meeting location if phones fail. ✓ Check the batteries in your flashlight. ✓ Make sure your vehicle has at least half a tank of gas. ✓ Review your evacuation route and an alternate route. ✓ Identify one neighbor you could help and one neighbor who could help you. ✓ Save an out-of-state contact who can serve as a family check-in point during an emergency. ✓ Make a list to restock any medications, pet supplies, or other essentials you rely on regularly. Ten minutes today can save you hours of stress later. Preparedness isn't built in a day. It's built in small decisions made before they become urgent. The goal is never perfection. The goal is being a little more ready tomorrow than you were yesterday. Easy peasy!
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Replying to @antoniogm
The system is designed to do what the system does: prevent competition from small new entrants with capacity for disruption. Incumbents can easily foot the bill for the compliance overburden. Others not so much. This is not guaranteed protection, but it is enough friction to prevent rapid and radical change.
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Great post on "brand harvesting" as part of enshittification
it’s called “brand harvesting” and we could fix it kaseyklimes.com/blog/what-if…
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There’s no need to apologize for wanting election integrity. We need more people who have the courage and conviction to stand up for what’s right. There’s this argument you’ll eliminate 50% of your customer base, if you speak up. Where’s the argument that you’ll have 0% customer base, if you don’t speak up and against anti-business politicians and policies. Businesses drive the economic engine for all the “virtuous” policies. Blue cities have been bleeding businesses of all sizes. Basic math: 50% > 0%
I try not to get political. But LA is where I live, and I am here to tell you: There is 0.0 percent chance these results are legit. Nithya Raman has no base. No one knew who she was until Spencer Pratt torched her on debate stage. She gave a concession speech on Tuesday. I really hope the federal government and @USAttyEssayli are investigating (Again, apologize for getting political. Feel free to unfollow if this bothers you. But a light needs to be shined on what's happening)
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Salami Slicing In a transactional context, sometimes your counterparty may try to essentially scam you for a small margin -- so thin that they hope you do not notice, or let it slide because it basically doesn't matter. By doing this over and over again, your counterparty hopes to accumulate some meaningful aggregate advantage. This is an amateur technique, because Salami Slicers usually do not realize that: 1. People notice. They may not say anything. But oh man do they notice. 2. Being recognized as a Salami Slicer is extremely negative and will kill you in social and business contexts, because you are showing that you will compromise your ethics for trivial amounts of money (or whatever else is at stake). Nobody will trust you for anything significant if they know you're the type of degenerate to steal pennies while others aren't looking. In fact, frequently, people will permit others to Salami Slice them as a kind of test -- will you do the wrong thing, thinking you can get away with it, for a small amount? A valuable signal. Thank you. Skilled Salami Slicers will maintain some level of plausible deniability -- "I'm sorry, I forgot to keep this minor obligation", "oh I wasn't sure whether you were paying this or I was", "I thought I didn't have to do this thing because of that other thing", etc. But there are patterns to this, and you can sniff it out quickly. (For example, Uber's ETAs are always optimistic -- the cars are always late or on time, but never early. Huh.) Some people will go 0-to-100 when they notice they're being Salami Sliced, because they understand what it says about their counterparty's view of themselves: it's extremely dehumanizing. If you try to strategically and deliberately deceive me for minuscule gains, then clearly your view of me is so low that you would cause me unlimited suffering if it was to your benefit. In a Schmittian sense, it's a hardcore Friend-Enemy distinction. Amateur Salami Slicers are occasionally surprised when they are spotted and receive the full Fuck You I'll Kill You, scorched-earth zero-mercy response: their counterparty understands the full symbolic reality of Salami Slicing. I hate being Salami Sliced.
Standard experience booking an Uber “5 minutes away” I order it “Finding your driver…” “Pickup in 7 minutes” I open my timer 9 minutes and 21 seconds later, it arrives This is so tedious and I am tired of being deceived at the margin
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This "rental push" is propaganda. Lack of commitment and ownership is a net negative for society. It encourages apathy because people don't have skin in the game to fight for what's good in their relationship, neighborhood, community, or workplace. A culture that lacks roots and a sense of belonging is easily overrun.
Another obsession in American is having a house meanwhile the American dreaming isn’t owning a house anymore - Caleb Hammer “It’s the freedom of renting, cause you can live wherever you want, you can move for a job easily” “With the incredible stock markets that we’ve had over the past 50 years, it beats it every time if you rent and just put your money into the stocks market”
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Once children became things we can create, select, freeze, discard, rent wombs for, pay for, screen for, customize, we really should not be shocked when people begin speaking of them like they are just products, because that is what products are, they are judged by their quality, they are measured by how useful they are, they are accepted or rejected based on whether they meet the desires of the buyer. This is what normalizing abortion, IVF and surrogacy has done for us. Evils beyond our wildest imaginations.
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In human behavior, trust is a prerequisite for dignity. People are more likely to act with care, stewardship, and craftsmanship when they believe their efforts matter and will be reciprocated. High-trust societies tend to produce better craftsmanship, and hew to beauty, because people feel a responsibility to leave things better than they found them. As trust erodes, transactionalism increases.
Why was every single thing in the past just so much better looking. Like even a box of sparklers.
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Observe the pattern… H-1B flood hits Texas suburbs. Housing demand spikes, prices rocket. Builders, agents, lenders, and the immigrants got RICH. Who got rich… and who got priced out? Your kids watched starter homes become unaffordable bidding wars. Schools and neighborhoods changed fast. American Dream delayed. Let’s reverse it, folks! Mass deportation AND H-1B crackdown. Prices will drop, cheaper housing for our kids, and less pressure on schools? Americans benefit when the system tilts back toward citizens.   Media calls it a tragedy. I call it math. Who are they protecting?
This is amazing. Bloomberg just published an article lamenting the H-1B crackdown on Indian workers in Texas because... HOME PRICES ARE DROPPING DRAMATICALLY(!!) The same article claims it's "racist" to scale back the number of H-1Bs (lol) and states as gospel truth that home prices going down will harm the local economy. Articles like this fail to explain how masses of Indian immigrants have pushed home prices out of reach for many native-born Americans in the first place, or how they've culturally transformed huge swaths of Texas. Prices coming DOWN from less immigration is an very good thing that should be celebrated. It also proves the Trump administration's entire premise: Unchecked, runaway, invasion levels of immigration, legal and illegal, has fueled the affordability crisis. Less immigration makes America more affordable.
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😂 Leadership in a nutshell. Everyone's problem is an emergency. Your job is to stay focused on what's most important. Some "emergencies" solve themselves.
Every morning, the moment my eyes open, I wake up to 40 unread Slack messages that effectively say: “If you don’t fix this in the next 5 minutes, the world will implode and the app will cease to exist.”
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It's interesting how society can view things as... too beautiful to use too beautiful to touch too beautiful to eat Where does this come from? Do we think we're not deserving of beauty? Anecdotally, when hosting I've put a lot of effort into the aesthetics, coordinating decor, place settings, and food. Guests have said, "It's too pretty to eat". 😅 It can't sit there, please enjoy all of it!!
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Congrats to Hammond and Indiana (two NFL teams)!! 🐻🐴 This is an embarASSing loss for Chicago and Illinois. Losing a legacy team with over 100 years of history.
Statement from Chairman George H. McCaskey and President & CEO Kevin Warren:
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“The other issue is less about waiting than about remaining engaged with a difficult question. It's the ability to tolerate incompleteness without immediately reaching for an answer. This is where judgment is crafted. Not in the moment of decision, but in the sustained engagement that precedes it. The slow recognition that a first answer is often far from complete or correct.“ psychologytoday.com/us/blog/…
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