imaging meeting a dom who’s the perfect balance of being soft and hard dom. he has his rules, harsh punishments, and will degrade you but at the same time as you are being railed he’s whispering how pretty slut you are and making sure you also feel the pleasure
vs a hard dom who’s words and tone are cruel, degrading, condescending and unforgiving. they have strict rules and expectations, harsh punishments. but their touch is polar opposite. they hold you gently, move you carefully and steadily. they fold their clothes and work slowly.