once you've hit bottom and felt it hold, you stop walking on tiptoe through your own life.
controversial: the best thing that can happen to a young man is total failure before 25.
not small failure. catastrophic, humiliating, public failure. the kind where everyone sees. the kind where you cant hide from it.
because it destroys the one thing that was going to hold you back your entire life: the fear of it happening.
once it happens you realise it didnt kill you. you got back up. you rebuilt. and now you move different because the worst case scenario already happened and you survived it.
most men spend their entire lives avoiding something that would have freed them if they just let it happen.
failure is not the opposite of success. its the prerequisite. every great man was great because he failed catastrophically early enough that it couldnt kill him but late enough that it could teach him.
after the catastrophe you are free. genuinely free. because the threat that controlled you has already happened.
be more retarded. just do it.