I am not a psychologist, but I came across an interesting paper by Grijalva, Maynes, Badura, and Whiting titled Examining the āIā in Team, and it hit on something very practical for anyone who has coached, led, or worked inside a team. The paper looks at narcissism in NBA teams and how it can affect coordination and performance. One line that stood out was the idea that narcissists may ātrade interdependence and closeness for individual status and esteem.ā That is a powerful way to describe something many coaches have seen, especially with young athletes who are pushing for a starting role or trying to prove themselves.
The practical piece is what matters most to me. The paper describes how āegocentric behaviors will evoke reciprocal selfishness from exchange partners,ā and that is where teams can start to break down. When one person starts highlighting themselves, chasing credit, or moving off the collective mission, others often shift into protection mode. They start guarding their own effort, their own role, their own recognition, and their own standing. The paper says this creates āa shift toward emphasizing personal interests over those of the collective,ā which can hinder team coordination and performance. In coaching terms, that is when the team stops playing connected and starts playing guarded.
I wish I had this language when I was coaching athletics, because I saw versions of this all the time. Not in a bad way. These were young athletes trying to earn opportunities, prove they belonged, or fight for playing time. But many did not yet understand that when the collective team gets better, everyoneās individual opportunity also improves. Effective teams have to address these vulnerabilities because all of us are capable of drifting toward the personal train for our own glory. The goal is not to shame ambition. The goal is to mature it, so individual drive strengthens the team instead of pulling people away from it.
Team needs to be coached and nurtured!