You can’t both complain that a man not being straight forward is rape and the mock and criticize them for being too stupid to know to just be quiet when you are horny and looking to get laid. “He totally ruined the moment. All he had to do was just tell me what I wanted to hear!”
The way I see it, most women are horny and trying to get laid, but men often ruin this by being disrespectful or otherwise not meeting the required standards.
Once I was genuinely trying to hook up, and then this guy said, “Women have never been oppressed.”