I'm a firm believer in reciprocity. The energy you give is the energy I return. If you make an effort, I'll make one too. If you become distant, I won't chase what isn't meeting me halfway. If you check in on me, you'll find me checking in on you. If you're consistent, you'll find consistency in me. If you're generous with your time, care, and presence, I'll give the same in return.
I don't believe relationships should be carried by one person. I meet people where they meet me. Not out of pride, but out of balance. Nothing more, nothing less, just the same respect, effort, and energy that was given.