My son is 15
I never bought him a pride onesie when he was a baby.
I never read him a book that had two moms as part of the storyline.
When he was little stores and businesses didnโt have LGBTQ displays and we didnโt celebrate pride month.
He was raised Catholic, and went to church.
Guess what? He is gay.
The rainbow wonโt make your kids gay. They are born that way. A display in a store wonโt make your kid trans, they are born that way.
If you donโt love and accept them for who they are, YOU are a shitty parent.
They havenโt failed, you have.