Not confusing at all.
I think most women do this to some degree.
The trick isn't telling people everything immediately. Trust is built in layers.
Start simple. Nothing that tells them exactly where you work or live. You can say what you do, but giving out your employer, routine or personal details too early isn't always a great idea.
They receive that information well. They listen. They ask questions. Great.
One thing I'd add: if somebody you've only just met starts steering the conversation towards sex, personal vulnerabilities, trauma, intimate details or private information, don't mistake that for connection.
It isn't flirting.
It's either poor social awareness or boundary testing.
People who respect boundaries don't need to immediately start pushing on them.
If they can't respect your boundaries at the beginning, they won't magically respect them later.
Then move onto the things that would be uncomfortable if repeated, not the things that would be dangerous if repeated.
Watch what people do with small pieces of information before giving them larger ones.
Do they listen? Keep confidences? Respect boundaries? Use vulnerabilities against people when they're angry?
The right person won't demand access to your whole life on day one. Or in a week. Or in a month.
They'll earn it over time.
You don't owe anyone your full story before they've shown they're safe enough to hold it.
If they can't wait for trust, they'll struggle to wait for commitment.