They'll "call" on us but won't give women equal pay for the same job, offer paid maternity & paternity leave, offer affordable early childhood care, properly fund schools & pay teachers enough to survive, reduce the medical costs of giving birth, or offer free higher education.
Society has to be willing to call on women to do the one thing that men can simply never do. It is uncomfortable but inevitable.
Relying on preferences is surely not enough.
As entire countries collapse, people will marvel that we were too polite or timid to make the ask.