Voice Over Artist ,Photographer📸, social Media Handler, Model @Dxcmodelacademy, An Animator. Man United 1999 Treble winner, 2024 FA Cup winner,
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Hi I’m Sekumade Adedapo, a Fashion Model who brings authenticity and natural energy to every set.
My journey includes campaigns for brands and and Editorial magazines I’ll like to work it.
I’m dedicated to embodying diverse narratives and always seeking new creative challenges.
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I watched a movie titled : HEAT
He was a very good detective but he had to pay the price with his marriage.
He got married and he was divorced thrice just because he wanted to be a good detective,
He spent less time with his family and most of his time at work chasing down criminals and gang leaders
His current 4th partner saw all the signs and she knew the marriage wouldn’t last either, she just had to accept her loss.
Asake said : something must go before something come.
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Hate to agree, but it’s true.
You can’t get to that level without sacrificing something significant.
Either your sanity, your family, your love life, or something else that matters deeply to you. Something has to give.
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Christianity doesn’t teach ‘selective sinning’—it commands ‘Go and sin no more’ (John 8:11), not ‘sin freely, grace covers it.’
The problem isn’t the faith; it’s pastors turning pulpits into ATM machines, scared to preach repentance because it hits their pockets. Fraud, adultery, and greed are condemned across the Bible.
If Nigerian churches are dodging hard truths for cash, that’s spiritual fraud—not Christianity. Real faith convicts, it doesn’t coddle. Call out the hirelings, don’t blame the Gospel.
Christianity teaches Christian to always select their sins and believe grace will always cover them.
This is why you will always find fraudsters and immoral people in the church because the church encourages them to be evil and sinful.
When their so-called pastors are fraudsters and immoral people, there is no way they will preach against such evil.
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Bal RON d'or 🐐🎈⚽ retweeted
Men are scared to trust their fathers, more than, brothers, and sisters with their money.
But they find it comfortable to trust their girlfriends with their money.
My former colleague gave his woman his ATM card and complete trust while he was away on a rigorous 9 month offshore contract to secure their future.
He returned to find his account drained to zero on designer bags, trips with "besties," and zero progress on the land they were supposed to buy.
Some people are not built for the waiting room; they just want to consume the seed.
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Bal RON d'or 🐐🎈⚽ retweeted
99% of modern women already embraced prostitution as their legit hustle. They don't bother to work anymore because men are always ready to pay.
If a lady can be f***** twice in a day for money, this tells you an average Nigerian woman f**** about 5-6 guys in a day. Non-virgins.
Forget, girls dey f**k watin no good. Sis Pamela, from one hotel to another 🤣.
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This is how women hunt for successful men in their prime.
They’ll never throw themselves so shamelessly at a broke guy or a guy who’s still in his struggling phase.
This simply shows how important it is to prioritize yourself, your dreams, your goals, and your purpose, and watch how they flock around you like butterflies 🦋 in a garden. x.com/eezharhh/status/206602…
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This is how women hunt for successful men in their prime.
They’ll never throw themselves so shamelessly at a broke guy or a guy who’s still in his struggling phase.
This simply shows how important it is to prioritize yourself, your dreams, your goals, and your purpose, and watch how they flock around you like butterflies 🦋 in a garden. x.com/eezharhh/status/206602…
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Men are cheap. Come and see how they’re fooling themselves in my DMs. Do you know how many of them are begging to date me??
My dear, a lot of them just want to get between your legs, that’s it. Most of them would never give you commitment except the weak ones and those with low self-esteem, which you don’t like at all.
Getting a successful man who wants to commit is very tough in this generation. That’s why it’s wise to use your youthful years wisely as a woman.
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High standards are great… until you realize the men who actually meet them aren’t lining up for women who bring zero peace, constant tests, and main-character energy to the table.
A man with options doesn’t chase entitlement — he chooses the woman who makes his life better, not harder. The dating market isn’t broken; the mirror just isn’t being looked in
If you are single because you can't lower your standards, why are men who meet your standards not approaching you?
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Bal RON d'or 🐐🎈⚽ retweeted
Forget, girls dey f**k watin no good. Sis Pamela, from one hotel to another 🤣.
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When men gather to create content, it’s entertaining and inspiring all through
Zero Sexualization, just pure content that’ll challenge young boys and men to become better versions of themselves.
I can’t say the same for women at all, it’s just few of them that create educational and inspiring content for young girls to learn, the rest of them promote sex and sexualize themselves a lot to the world.
@BambuluQ @DurableMLecture @Chi_lady_89 @onlyone_success x.com/SkillzBig1/status/2065…
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Bal RON d'or 🐐🎈⚽ retweeted
That you're sleeping with a man, exchanging fluids, doing nasty things to your bodies doesn't give you the right to disrespect him.
You're still a small girl and so you should respect that. Do you see yourself to be age mates with a man that puts his weapon inside of you while you scream? 🤣
The thing wey dey annoy me pass be when person go leave women wey be him age mates come date girl for her 20s, then anytime una get issue him go shout, “we re not my mates!”
Oga, we no be mates but na me you choose date. 🤷🏽♀️
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This ain’t a “double standard” you can shame society over. This is biology, sexual market value, and basic signal reading not hypocrisy.
Men posting shirtless pics are usually flexing fitness, discipline, strength, and status. Broad shoulders, low body fat, muscle that signals “I can protect, provide, and compete.”
It’s not primarily begging for sexual validation in the same raw way. It’s display of capability.
Women (and men) celebrate it because high-value traits in men are attractive for long-term reasons too. Evolution wired it that way.
A woman posting cleavage? That’s direct sexual signaling highlighting breasts, which scream fertility, youth, and sexual availability.
It’s not “just a little skin” equivalent to a man’s chest. One is a power/competence display; the other is titillation.
Men respond to visual sexual cues faster and more intensely (that’s not “society,” that’s testosterone and studies on arousal patterns). So yeah, the reaction differs. Surprise!
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Madam, nobody told you not to post your cleavage. It's a free world so don't allow the label "ashawo" stop you from being a philanthropist to the brotherhood.
Post your cleavage so we can leverage on it for free.
The game might be brutal but it's still fair.
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With the kind of ladies we have nowadays and the kind of interviews we watch on our phones, many of them would get married in the future and humiliate their husbands amd Family members
They’ve sown the seed of destruction already let’s just wait and watch how it grows.
In all you do, try to find a partner that won't embarrass you for social media clicks. Or stay single.
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Prolonged ‘no touch’ without a damn good reason (new baby, serious illness, etc.) is the loudest silent confession there is.
A woman who genuinely wants you will find ways to be close even if it’s not full sex.
Dead bedroom zero effort = she’s feeding that energy somewhere else.
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😂 This is painfully accurate. Bros will thank God, their village people, and the government before they admit a male friend helped them eat during the struggle.
But the moment a wife enters the picture? Suddenly she’s the CEO, the prayer warrior, the brain behind every move—even if her biggest contribution was cooking indomie and posting his wins on Insta.
The ego gymnastics are Olympic level. Men measure themselves by results, so pre-marriage it’s “I built this alone.” Post-marriage it’s “We built this” (even when “we” means she was busy shopping with the profits).
The real question is: why do we devalue the solid guys who actually showed up, but overvalue the domestic partner who benefits most from our success? Make it make sense, gentlemen.
Nigerian men are biased toward taking all credit for their successes - even in cases where such success was partly or majorly due to luck, friendships or the magnanimity of greater men.
That is until they get married and the same men who once believed they were entirely self made begin attributing every achievement to their wives.
For example, you could encourage a broke, struggling friend to relocate to a bigger city, or upscale neighbourhood, support him financially through the transition and put him on to opportunities, yet when, months or years later, he gets his big break, he will be inclined to view his prosperity as entirely self made.
There will be little or no mention of you or any of his other friends who may have been instrumental to his success "pushing him" or (jointly) creating the conditions that made that success possible.
But if his poor wife who has not done anything meaningful with her life, merely suggests that he make the same move (typically for her own selfish reasons of course) and contributes nothing materially to it, he is far more likely to instinctively credit her for his good fortune and see her 'advice' as the turning point that changed his life.
I understand the former bias - that is - why a man would be blind, willfully or not, to the instrumentality of external agency to his success
Men judge themselves on competence and material success is prima facie proof of it. So it makes sense that successful men would be biased towards attributing all their accomplishments to their hardwork, tenacity, courage, intelligence and basically, to themselves
I get it.
The part I do not quite get yet, at a sufficiently high resolution at least, is why that bias flips outwards after marriage and men who once insisted every win was solely a product of their own industry, suddenly become eager to credit their less competent wives for outcomes they would have previously attributed to themselves.
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This is why majority of Nigerian men kpai too early
They take up orphans, stray dogs amd hungry girls that are not willing to create or generate wealth for themselves, they just want to rely on a man that’ll come and save them from poverty.
Stop looking at body features only and focus on her values, morals, mindset plus if she’s not going to be a liability to you financially.
Stop marrying girls that only like you for your money !!! x.com/Chude_ND1/status/20660…
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I dare all of you on this app screaming that her past doesn’t matter and that it’s her character I should focus on,
I dare all of you to ask her this same question.
I know most of you won’t be able to eat or think straight for the next 5-6 days, which is why you can’t ask her.
Don’t worry, keep hiding under the tree of “it’s her character that matters.” You’ll learn the hard way when you start shouldering the responsibility of damaged goods you know nothing about.
@Kakashi_j6 @Donjaytrix001 @BambuluMen @BambuluQ @ckatalyst_
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Most men stay broke and invisible because they’re busy being ‘nice guys’ who put everyone else first.
Selfishness isn’t evil , it’s fuel. Protect your time, your energy, your vision. The world respects strength and results, not kindness points.
Level up or stay average.
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Bal RON d'or 🐐🎈⚽ retweeted
Signs that a man will never make it:
1) He is not selfish.
2) He thinks he can get respect and love by being nice.
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I keep saying this thing all the time,
If you let a woman’s words get into your head too much, they’ll Manipulate and Gaslight you so much that You’ll become a fool in her eyes.
If you want princess treatment, give me king treatment too, things must go hand in hand not one sided.
If you’re always wanting me to invest financially and emotionally without you reciprocating that energy, my dear sorry is your name.
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Two people are in a relationship but the man should be the only one to strike her with surprises to maintain the relationship?
How about women striking their man with surprises? Oh, it's not in your dictionary?
So men were basically created to please women while not expecting reciprocity?
No be only strike na striker.
If you like, don't have sense. Allow women whine you.
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