I married a woman who had 3 children from her first marriage. And together we two more. As soon as the youngest graduated college she decided to leave me when her dad passed and left her a lot of $$$. The three "steps" say their mother isn't married to me anymore, so I'm nothing, even though I raised them all from diapers. They have a Dad (they say even though he was never in their lives growing up) means they are faithful only to their mother. I don't see any of them, or their children now (that I was supposedly Grandpa to them too growing up.) I'm not upset, it is what it is. However, my mother (in heaven now) told me NOT to marry her. She was right all along . . .
Men listen to your mother, I could have been a rich man if I never met her. Now I live in a trailer park, too old to date, and not even interested anymore. Guys, get a dog, they are more faithful and dependable, just rent a woman when you need one. Never give her your last name, it's nothing but trouble . . . and you'll go broke. Why buy the cow when you can "rent it when you need it."