Hold your self accountable. Be real and stop all the self deceit
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So much hatred and envy in the cs. Go work hard and make your own money too.
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For years, Boomers have assumed their retirement plan was simple: sell their overpriced house to a Millennial or Gen Z buyer.
The only problem? The next generation doesn’t have $1.6 million to spend on a starter home.
I can’t wait to see what happens when reality finally catches up.
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Testing English language needed? Why?
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Walahi IELTS is necessary like mad smh
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People act like grandparents are some kind of discipline experts. Most grandparents are old and don't have the energy to keep fighting with a teenager all day. They will probably do what the parents should be doing now: talk to her, listen to her, and be patient with her.
Jun 13
She should wait till December and make sure they all come home for Christmas.
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And because they were strict with you when you were a child doesn't mean they will be strict with their grandkids. Also, sending a troubled teenager to Nigeria for harsher discipline can expose them to new risks & bad influences which you won't be there to see and address.
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Most people on this thread are saying "send her back home," but that makes little sense. Parents in Nigeria lose children to drugs, crime, bad influences, and all kinds of social problems too. Moving a child to Nigeria doesn't magically eliminate those risks.
Jun 13
I just got off on phone on an hour call with my friend who relocated to the UK with her family.
She tells me no that her 14 year old daughter no longer listen to her. She speaks to her rudely and refuses to help with chores.🥺
She has once called social worker /police on her father hence the Father is withdrawn from her matter after that incident.
My friend is almost crying on the phone. She said she is exhausted and doesn't know what to do.
Please what can she do to redeem this situation?
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In fact, depending on the circumstances, it could make the child even more vulnerable in an environment with less oversight and fewer safeguards. The issue is parenting and guidance, not geography. Talking to a teenager usually works better than just cracking down harder.
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Kids that age need discipline, but they also need someone who will listen to them. Sending her away might change the environment, but it won't solve the real problem. Good communication and firm boundaries will do more than turning it into a battle.
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What a callous and wicked thing ro say.
Jun 14
I grew up with maids
I do not support the concept of house maids especially kids.
My POV
The maid is not her Child.
The Child has parents abi?
If she has to dress "well" she should stay with her parents.
This is clear cut.
Stop emotionally blackmailing her
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He hides the racism as concern for crime, but reveals himself by reducing people to group averages. That is usually the hallmark of small men with zero accomplishments. They claim collective credit from their race while blaming other groups collectively.
Jun 13
Europe brought civilization to those places.
I don't mind Ukrainians in Poland, they are mostly good people. I don't want criminals in Europe and because a lot of them are either criminals or sex offenders I don't want any of them.
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Thats a lie. The movies told us, it only takes one baking sheet to prevent any bullets. 🤣🤣
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How many baking sheets would it take to stop a 50 cal?
Community note
The video is clipped and does not show the .50 BMG test. The full video shows the .50 BMG penetrates all 34 baking sheets. youtube.com/watch?v=GJIT4N…
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Things that bring people together.
This is how we check World Cup fixtures when there was no access to internet, gone are those days at Ojota, like it’s was so interesting, they will sell to us then unfolded in other to make it easy to access, we will fold it and begin to write score after each match.
Childhood 🙌🏼
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This is one or a combination of callousness, evil, ignorance, and being cursed that makes a person post this with the caption. Ne'er do wells.
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Some things should be so obvious that they never become a discussion. The fact that people are genuinely arguing both sides says a lot about where we are as a society.
Not everything needs a debate.
Jun 10
My office is still paying a ₦200,000 monthly salary to a colleague who resigned six months ago.
He resigned properly, but his name was never removed from the payroll. He never informed the company that he was still receiving his usual salary after leaving. Over the past six months, he has received a total of ₦1.2 million.
Our manager tracked him down and asked him to refund the ₦1.2 million to the company. He refused, insisting that it wasn't his fault since he had resigned properly.
Now, our boss is considering involving the police in the matter.
If you were in his position, would you return the money? Or is the company entirely responsible for its own mistake?
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Hating the world around you and actively recruiting others into that hatred is not safety. A society cannot claim to value safety while ignoring ideologies that promote hostility, division, and the dehumanization of others. Imagine if someone was openly advocating for wanton
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Parental rights are already limited in many areas where a child's welfare or society's interests are at stake. The fact that a parent believes something does not automatically create an unrestricted right to teach it. If safety is the standard, then it should include protecting
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society from the cultivation and spread of beliefs that teach hatred, superiority, and the inferiority of other human beings, not just responding after the damage has already been done.
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That's exactly it. The little girl didn't come up with that fear on her own; someone planted it. Using "safety" as a crutch to stop a father from doing normal things with his own child is unfair and wrong. If this were a son, would the same standard be applied?
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Things are getting really scary these days. Personally, I don't see anything wrong with a loving father helping to bathe his daughter when she's young. My dad bathed us while we were growing up, right until we reached the age where we could comfortably take care of ourselves, and it was always done out of love and care.
If I had a daughter, I honestly wouldn't see any reason why my husband couldn't help bathe her when she's still a child. That's why stories like this make me sad. For a daughter to react with fear or shout at her own father in that situation suggests there may be deeper issues within the family. It almost feels like someone has planted suspicion in her mind against her dad, and that's heartbreaking to witness."
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This is why trust is so important in a home. You cannot successfully raise children with someone who automatically assumes the worst. Fears from unresolved trauma, past experiences, or deeply ingrained beliefs, make people see danger where there is none.
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Trust does not mean ignoring real warning signs. It means judging people by their actual behavior and evidence, not by fears, assumptions, or projections. A healthy family needs trust as its foundation; otherwise, every shadow starts to look like a threat.
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