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everytime i rip the bong in the hottub

went to a wedding this weekend heard the hand of chatgpt in the wedding vows cringed in multiple dimensions as i realized this will be every wedding for the rest of time

my friend and i both got dosteovsky characters

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it's actually related to that one anti natalist post and the discourse around it today for the longest time I didn't get why the servant who hid his talent was *sinning* it seemed like a neutral act to me; he was just scared! what if he'd lost it! kind of a pussy sure but is that a sin? and I think the answer actually is yes acting via avoidance of an unwanted outcome is like a kind of dead existence it's just turning and walking into a wall suicide in life my grandma used to say "anxiety is a sin" and I thought that was so mean, and hypocritical because she was terribly anxious but I think I get her point now god said "let there be" things are supposed to keep going; we are supposed to use what we have boldly

Makes me realize how deep the grind can be, how many times I might have quit before a huge breakthrough. Because the moment he starts crawling, the game changes drastically. You get to spend weeks flopping around, making tiny incremental progress, and then BOOM.

Clavicular is doing to men what teen magazines did to young women.

absolute mood

Me jotting down an epiphany: Haha fuck yeah!!! Yes!! Me reading that note later: Well this fucking sucks. What the fuck.

The vibes here are spread thin as this site gets ever more hyper-optimized for Hot Takes lacking the kind of nuance we are known for around here. A friend is hosting a Deep Takes event where the invitation is to celebrate nuance. With how we think, we belong there. link below

I get the impression that In the past, it was standard for people at parties to entertain each other. Not just singing and playing instruments, but dancing and reciting poetry and telling jokes and "party tricks" and telling stories. What happened? Why is this antisocial now?

i pull another pistachio disbelief! it also opens easily how long will this trend continue

yeah i’ve appreciated this too