almost all mental health disorders are things that people didnt ask for. As someone who dated a person with BPD its hard to deal with at times but he was trying and shit. Not everyone with a mental disorder are evil and they are trying everyday
I don't know what happened, but I HATE the whole "People with BPD are horrible and you shouldn't be friends with or date them" stuff
As someone with BPD this narrative is so harmful to those who have put in the work to get better and fight past the struggles of this disorder...
Yes, BPD is a hard thing to live with and it is hard to love and be with someone that has BPD. But, demonizing us doesn't help the stigma that is already against us.