This girl on TikTok said, βTake care of yourself so you donβt become a hater when you see a woman doing better than you.β And she was right. A lot of women donβt realize the hate they throw at other women is really unhealed envy. Youβre not mad at her. Youβre mad because sheβs doing what you keep saying youβll do but havenβt had the discipline, mindset, or courage to start.