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Kelly Oliver Dougall ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’œ retweeted
Dear @NadiaWhittomeMP and the 138 MPs trying to block the EHRC code, I do hope you'll read this story. It's about a man, clearly identifiable as such, wearing a badly fitting wig and claiming to be a woman, who has been convicted of masturbating in front of female nurses. Not his first sexual offence, by a long way. Given you want to block the EHRC code that helps organisations implement the Supreme Court ruling on the meaning of sex in equality law, I'm interested to know how you think women and girls should be protected from men like this. I ask because the court prosecutor referred to him as a woman. Which led to inaccurate reporting of the story in the media. And if crimes committed by males are recorded and reported as female crimes, how are we supposed to understand patterns of offending? And if we don't have accurate data, how are we supposed to prevent violence against women - or ensure male offenders are not housed in women's prisons? I'd also be interested in your thoughts on inaccuracies in media reporting - and whether you believe journalists have a duty to report material facts or uphold ideologies. Because the latter is not exactly impartial, is it? This journalist appears to have been present in court. Yet readers are expected to make sense of a report that alternates between male female pronouns and uses the phrase "her penis". And if we cannot rely on the justice system or the media to report material facts accurately, who exactly are we supposed to rely on? The thing is, Nadia, we already had a very 'workable' system. For generations, males stayed out of female spaces. Because we had single-sex spaces - and people respected them. What some dub the 'culture wars' only started when some men began insisting they were actually women - and politicians like yourself, along with influential institutions, decided to go along with it. You constantly present men who identify as women as a uniquely oppressed group. But seriously, Nadia ... does this man look oppressed to you? Likewise the man called "Jessica" who appeared in court this week charged with child sex offences. Also not a first time offender. And the many other examples I could cite to you. You know as well as I do - as do the MPs who signed your motion - that men commit the overwhelming majority of violent and sexual offences. Against women and girls. And nothing in the evidence suggests those patterns of offending disappear when a man adopts a female identity. So please stop presenting this as though women are objecting to harmless self-expression. We are responding to reality. The UK is a tolerant society. The only thing men who identify as women are required to do is exactly what every other male is expected to do: stay out of women's spaces. And that's not 'oppression'. It's basic safeguarding.
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โ€œItโ€™s important to note that the current government is trying to dismiss this issue as a โ€˜culture warโ€™ while theyโ€™re simultaneously trying to rebrand themselves as the party against misogyny, not connecting the dots that refusing to acknowledge what a woman is & cement womenโ€™s rights in law is an act of extreme misogynyโ€
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๐Ÿšจ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡งBREAKING: UK Police just arrested a crying 5-year-old boy while taking away his father. Starmer's police dragged the terrified child into a car, then pepper-sprayed and the father and the man filming everything. What the hell is happening in Britain? @MarioBojic
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Kelly Oliver Dougall ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’œ retweeted
Giggle has applied to have Giggle v Tickle heard in the High Court. โ€œWe have filed for special leave in the High Courtโ€ฆ Because the federal court is saying men can be women in law & making women only spaces effectively unisex, we are going to the High Court to challenge that.โ€
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Kelly Oliver Dougall ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’œ retweeted
A woman with bright purple hair came in to my work today. She would have blended with the TQIA community but I still complimented her on her choice of hair colour and pointed out the tone was one of the suffragette colours. She told me she has been teaching her daughter about the Suffragettes and other feminist women and then asked me if I knew womenโ€™s rights were under threat and had I heard of a case called Tickle versus Giggle? I said I had, that I found the fact Tickle won despicable, and she launched in to a 10 minute rant about self ID and her disgust with Labor and the Greens, who she used to vote for. I didnโ€™t say anything, just let her vent. Then I invited her to our rally on the 4th of July. I work in a tiny satellite town an hour from Melbourne. If gender ideology has women riled up out here then TERFs have won in the court of public opinion. If Labor wants any chance of staying in government, or if the Libs or One Nation want a crack, they better give women our rights back!
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Kelly Oliver Dougall ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’œ retweeted
@jan_murray got you really, really riled up @LeoKearse ๐Ÿคฃ
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Kelly Oliver Dougall ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’œ retweeted
Correction: you *tried* to mock me on TV. But made yourself look like an arsehole by claiming Iโ€™d behaved like a โ€˜victimโ€™ - when Iโ€™d been on screen 10 seconds earlier displaying no evidence of โ€˜victimhoodโ€™ whatsoever. ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ And now youโ€™re courting clicks by encouraging more men to abuse me online. Nice.
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Kelly Oliver Dougall ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’œ retweeted
๐ŸšจBREAKING: A number of people have stepped forward to claim that a Government Organisation named RICU hide the truth from the British people whenever a migrant attack happens and manage the response This includes writing statements for bereaved families to read out ๐Ÿ˜ณ
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Kelly Oliver Dougall ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’œ retweeted
If any movement has proven how fragile gay rights are itโ€™s the T. Lesbians are in court defending legal protections for homosexuals only because of โ€˜transโ€™ activism. Homosexuality is being reframed to include those of the opposite sex because of the T. Who said that in a world of โ€˜genderโ€™ homosexuality doesnโ€™t really exist / is redundant? Joy Everingham, a โ€˜transโ€™ person. Who wrote in the 90s that in a world of โ€˜genderโ€™ homosexuality would lose all meaning? Martine Rothblatt, a โ€˜transโ€™ person. Who said being gay was a โ€˜consolation prizeโ€™ for those who didnโ€™t have the balls to โ€˜transitionโ€™? Juno Dawson, a โ€˜transโ€™ person. Who are running workshops for gay men to learn to pleasure female genitalia? โ€˜Transโ€™ people. Who are running workshops for males to convince lesbians to date them? โ€˜Transโ€™ people. Do are advocating for a sterilising medical pathway for youth, most of whom would simply grow up to be gay? โ€˜Transโ€™ people So donโ€™t be baffled, educate yourself - itโ€™s 2026 and you have no excuse for being this ignorant anymore
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Therapists like this need to be cancelled. Not the ones like me, who listen to mother's
โ€œThat is called trauma,โ€ transgender therapist Carson Eckard told my confused daughter when she expressed fear that I might come to the campus of Rider University. In October, it will be two years since Ilene took her life. Trauma. It is a word therapists use so often when gender-confused children speak about parents who question or oppose their new identity. Trauma. A word that now haunts me. And sometimes I wonder whether Carson Eckard truly understands what trauma means. I am talking about the trauma many parents experience in this country when their children are pulled away from them by a combination of therapists, schools, peers, transgender activists, pastors, and even state involvement. Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like when Motherโ€™s Day comes and the daughter you love with all your heart doesnโ€™t call to wish you a Happy Motherโ€™s Day? Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like when DCF shows up at your door because a transgender pastor filed a complaint against you despite never having met you and having met your daughter only once? Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like when a university you trusted with your childโ€™s education and safety labels you โ€œunsafeโ€ and bars you from its campus? Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like when your childโ€™s birthday arrives and you are unable to spend it with her? Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like when police knock on your door and tell you that your child is deadโ€”and that her body lay alone in a dorm room for four days while the university was celebrating National Coming Out Day? Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like to stand beside your daughterโ€™s casket and see her lying there, motionless, knowing that every hope, every dream, every plan you had for her future has come to an end? Does Carson Eckard know what it feels like to watch that casket slowly lowered into the ground, knowing that this is the last time you will ever be physically close to your child? That is trauma. The sleepless nights. The unanswered messages. The fear. The helplessness. The grief. The years of wondering whether there was something more you could have done. Yet I suspect Carson Eckard would not describe what I feel as trauma, despite being a licensed therapist. To Carson Eckard, trauma was my daughterโ€™s belief that something was wrong with her body and my refusal to affirm that belief. But what would Carson Eckard call what I have lived through? What would Carson Eckard call what countless other parents are living through right now? If losing your child while she is still alive is not trauma, and losing her forever is not trauma, then what is?
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Kelly Oliver Dougall ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’œ retweeted
Important. The Daily Mail has just revealed that the Belfast knife attack suspect was granted asylum in Britain under a controversial 'fast-track' scheme, introduced by Reform's Robert Jenrick and Suella Braverman. It has been reported that the monster's case was dealt with through this scheme. Jenrick and Braverman gave him 'permission to stay here after completing a 10-page Home Office questionnaire rather than undergoing the standard โ€“ and far more rigorous - face-to-face interview process' the Mail reports. This is traitorous. Reform's Jenrick and Braverman have serious questions to answer. Today. There is one party that will deal with these savages in the appropriate manner. Asylum system abolished, mass deportations and a referendum on the death penalty for scumbags who attempt beheadings on British streets. Restore Britain.
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Kelly Oliver Dougall ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’œ retweeted
๐Ÿงต1/ Who knew that this young woman, @MaeveHalligan, would go viral just one year later with a speech at Cambridge Union. A bright future Iโ€™m sure. @ThePosieParker maybe this was her maiden speech! #AdultHumanFemale #SexNotGender Source: youtube.com/live/ZfLxbXj8TOI & @charles_hart
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Kelly Oliver Dougall ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’œ retweeted
I was a radio presenter and live on air in May 2023 when I had to break the news that Lee Rigby had been brutally murdered by this man and his accomplice in Woolwich. They used this machete to try to behead Rigby. 13 long years later, no lessons have been learned by the authorities. None at all.
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