In the 1950's, Black Africans didn't travel/go on vacay, their kids went to rural public schools. Most Families lived in the village whilst the Father worked in the city. No Tashas or Rockets dates & new clothing was a Christmas treat. That's the life you want? Rather get a Maid.
He told me he wanted a "traditional woman" who knew her way around a kitchen and kept a peaceful home. I told him that sounded lovely, and asked if he was prepared to provide the traditional 1950s salary that allows a woman to stay home and focus on those things.
He stuttered and said, "Well, in this economy, we’d both obviously have to work full-time."
I just laughed and said, "So you don't want a traditional wife. You want a second income that also doubles as a maid. I’m an investment, not a charity project. Find someone else to subsidize your lifestyle."