Author Soft Life Without Loss πŸ‡―πŸ‡² Teacher by day. Culture critic always. Grief, joy, pop culture, Amazon reviews. Long-form on YouTube

Joined February 2021
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POV: you survive enough heartbreak to finally turn your healing into words β˜•πŸ“šπŸ–€ Soft Life After Loss. Written by me. And yes… I’m still processing the fact that I became an author. #author #softlifeafterloss #coffeeteaorlabrish #resetwithcoffee
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The goal isn’t to become somebody else. The goal is to become yourself without all the fear, guilt, and expectations you picked up along the way. #MorningAlignment
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Dennis bringing Porsha’s engagement ring back years later while she’s fresh out of a divorce? Baby, that’s not closure…that’s a jump scare. No wonder she’s triggeredπŸ˜­πŸ’ #RHOA
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Cynthia giving Drew a pass for arriving at the gala when it was already ending? Baby, Cynthia Bailey is nicer than me because three hours late is a whole different event. 😭 #RHOA #WWHL
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Tea House Debate β˜•οΈ: Question: If all your bills were paid and you lived in a mansion, would you stay with someone who openly dated other people, or is peace worth more than luxury? πŸ‘€β˜•οΈ #wwhl #rhoa
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Andy asking Cynthia if she’d stay with a man who openly dated other women as long as he paid the bills? Baby, that’s not a relationship question, that’s a sociology exam. 😭 #wwhl #rhoa
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Saying Brian is β€œthe gift that keeps giving” after the tracker, arrest, and restraining order? Baby, that’s not a gift. That’s a subscription service nobody asked for. 😭 #RHORI
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The reunion ain’t even started and Andy already got the husbands on stage talking about trackers, arrests, restraining orders, affairs, and pregnancies. Baby, Rhode Island said β€œseason finale” and then pulled out a whole second season in the last episode. 😭 #RHORI
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Tea House Debate β˜•οΈ: Question: If someone says they don’t want to see proof because it’s too painful, should everyone respect that…or does the truth deserve to come out no matter what? πŸ‘€ #RHORI
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Brian admitting to things on camera when nobody asked him to is wild. Baby, sometimes silence really is free. You waited this long Now Rulla looks silly for riding with you and you jumping ship 😭 #rhori
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Make sure you’re getting the #rhori tea in this tea house. Join me and your fellow watchers, the conversation is getting πŸ₯΅ facebook.com/share/g/1EAWkrp…

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Alicia and Billy: Nine years later and they’re renewing the engagement before the wedding. Baby, at this point it’s not a relationship timeline…it’s a scenic route. But I love them together. πŸ’πŸ˜­ #RHORI
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Alicia yelling β€œThat’s God!” When the messy question landed where it needed to go is sending me. Baby, not God catching strays in game night. 😭 #RHORI
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Rulla said she didn’t want to play the game and honestly, the person who never wants to play the game is ALWAYS the one with the most to lose. πŸ‘€ #RHORI
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Alicia literally walking Billy through how to propose to her and him still pulling it off is sending me. 😭 Baby, sometimes men don’t need hints, they need instructions and a PowerPoint. #RHORI
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Liz said, β€œI’m letting Joellen off the hook.” Girl, y’all both on the hook. That’s why we’re here. β˜•πŸ˜­ #rhori
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Block Island to Rhode Islanders is what Jamaica is to Caribbean people. Baby, they talk about this island like it’s paradise. πŸ˜­β˜• #rhori
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Liz and Joellen finally make peace for approximately 11 minutes before the group starts talking about videos, affairs, and β€œmind your business.” Baby, peace on Bravo has a shorter shelf life than milk. πŸ˜­β˜• #RHORI
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Pinky talking bankruptcy, rebuilding her business, AND protecting her marriage all at the same time? Baby, entrepreneurship ain’t for the weak. Everybody loves the success story, but nobody wanna talk about the nights you’re crying over spreadsheets and legal fees. #RHOA
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Not Porsha’s sister basically saying date five men and eliminate them by red flags. Baby, this is The Bachelorette: Atlanta Porsha edition. 🌹 #RHOA
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Cynthia keeps saying she wants peace, but baby, peace and neutrality are not the same thing. The side-picking is subtle, but it’s there. πŸ‘€ #RHOA
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