God, imagine just doing your job. If you're full time you're spending 35-40 hours of your week there. why wouldn't you want to make that time more pleasant? It is absolutely a moral failing to isolate yourself and make everyone elses life harder by being a miserable cunt.
โBe more socialโ this is a job. You are not my friends. I wouldnโt have a job if I didnโt need a paycheck. I donโt come here for social hour. I donโt want to do team bonding dinners. I donโt have a need to bond. My social networking only comes out when it needs to. Small talk with coworkers over lunch is meaningless to me. This job is your entire identity, that doesnโt mean it needs to be mine, and I feel bad for you. My identity is my real life outside of work, and employment is merely an essential duty of life. Stop acting like itโs a moral failing to simply want to work and be left alone.