Yes, but also no.
A man’s rejection pain is status coded. “You’re not good enough.”
Female rejection is identity coded. She sees him, someone she elevated in her mind as well, but he doesn’t want her.
For Men, rejection is a demotion, a hit to rank. For women, rejection is a wound to their identity.
Far more painful
Most of it is entitlement, but I think part of why men lose their shit when women don’t want them is that it just hurts more to be rejected by women than it does by men. A woman’s opinion of you says something deeper, it’s a signal that the tribe itself doesn’t want you, that you won’t be a part of the future of our species, it’s existential in a way that a man not wanting you just isn’t and never will be