Itβs never easy for me to just move on from someone I truly love(d)and was intimate with. I have to grieve them, grieve the closeness we had. Then I have to slowly teach myself to live without them and unlearn that intimacy so I can one day let someone else inβ¦ that takes time.
I hate when people apologize but completely bypass the self-reflection.
If you can't articulate what you did wrong and acknowledge how it affected me, your "sorry" is just a tool to clear your own conscience.
The fact that you can be there thinking you & your partner locked in meanwhile they looking for your replacement cause you not who they really wanted fr lol..
Right now life teaching me detachment. Nothingβs really mine. People come and go. Moments pass. Love shifts. Itβs all temporary. Iβm learning to enjoy things without gripping them too tight. To accept when energy changes. To let go when itβs time.
At some point you really have to tell yourself "this is not an experience I want to keep having" and stop entertaining things that don't benefit you in any way.
STAY CLEAR of the people who donβt value the small sacrifices you makeβ¦ like spending money you barely have, showing up when youβre tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, or being the one who checks in first.