Relationship coach and author of “This is How Your Marriage Ends” -- available now! tinyurl.com/2p8z6rhn
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11 Apr 2022
"Every couple has their own unique version of The Same Fight. For us, it was dishes by the sink." In an excerpt from my new book, I argue that little things that fuel The Same Fight are what become major problems in marriage and long-term partnerships: theatlantic.com/family/archi…
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4 books to strengthen your relationships 👫🤝
@bobgoff @MBTTTR @MitchAlbom
#tbr #bookrecommendations #relationships #books
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27 Nov 2024
He wrote a very good (imo) book too however I think long term partnership at the end of the should be more than a lot of small and relatively insignificant things…
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27 Nov 2024
Screenshots. If this helps only one person, I'll be satisfied. You're welcome ❤️
27 Nov 2024
Behind a paywall. Sadly can’t access but looks like a really good read.
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21 Nov 2024
💔This week: Matthew Fray of @MBTTTR on how marriages can slowly unravel, and the skills you need to rescue things early in the piece.
themeaningfullife.podbean.co…
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19 May 2023
"Some people believe that the purpose of business is to enable culture, to enable humanity. And some people believe that the purpose of humanity and culture is to enable business."
I could listen to Seth Godin talk all day tim.blog/2023/05/17/seth-god…
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16 Feb 2023
When you're triggered over the dirty dishes in the sink, it's not really about the dishes.
It's about:
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6 Feb 2023
The pragmatic presents to buy your other half this Valentine’s Day…
Forget the red roses and boxes of chocolate – get them a meaningful (and helpful!) gift this February, with #ThisIsHowYourMarriageEnds, #ConversationsFromALongMarriage and #FiveArgumentsAllCouplesNeedToHave 👍
ALT A photo of three books on a wooden background. The books are This is How Your Marriage Ends by Matthew Fray, Conversations from a Long Marriage by Jan Etherington and Five Arguments All Couples (Need To) Have by Joanna Harrison.
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23 Jan 2023
How your partner was loved as a child will show up in: how they react when hurt, how they communicate during conflict, and how they respond when you share your feelings.
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22 Jan 2023
Listening to this by @MBTTTR. I’m in chapter 2, listening to the section about “the invalidation triple threat” and it is pure gold. Absolute dead on about the ways to invalidate your spouse (or kid or friend or…) and I feel very stabby now.
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20 Jan 2023
Stumbled across @MBTTTR today. This snippet from one of his blog posts…oh yes. Oh hell to the yes. Also ouch.
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9 Jan 2023
Headed home to Buffalo today with a lot of love on my heart. 🫶🏾
Watching the world come together around me on Sunday was truly an amazing feeling.
The same love you all have shown me is the same love that I plan to put back into the world n more.
Bigger than football! 🫶🏾
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5 Jan 2023
Make a new year's resolution that counts: to improve your relationship.
@MBTTTR's acclaimed #ThisIsHowYourMarriageEnds is out today in paperback.
Find out more: bit.ly/TIHYMEpb
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7 Dec 2022
‘People fail to recognise how the so-called ‘little things’ add up over time’
In case you missed it – here’s our article on why so many long-term relationships fail and if there’s anything we can do to save them. Featuring advice from @MBTTTR and @JoCoupleTherapy ⬇️
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24 Nov 2022
‘People fail to recognise how the so-called ‘little things’ add up over time’
Why do so many long-term relationships fail? And is there anything we can do to save them before it’s too late? Matthew Fray @MBTTTR and @JoCoupleTherapy share their advice in our NEW article ⬇️
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23 Nov 2022
Make your relationship stronger – listen to this @souvenirpress double whammy on @BBCWomansHour 💪
@Emmabarnett chats to #ThisIsHowYourMarriageEnds author
@MBTTTR and #FiveArgumentsAllCouplesNeedToHave author @JoCoupleTherapy about their vital books.
bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m001fc…
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5 Oct 2022
Today's submissions for the #NonObvious Book Awards include books
from @malekanoms, @dollarsanddata, @MBTTTR, @BenjaminPHardy, and @urvi_bhatnaga. Good luck everyone! cc: @BookBaby, @harrimanhouse, @HarperOneBooks, @hayhouse, and @BKpub.
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5 Oct 2022
Looking for thoughtful relationship advice? Try #TheMeaningfulLife podcast:
❤️Terry Real on 5 traps to avoid
❤️Infidelity - @SailingInfidel1 @stilllearning2b @cmaddenmft
❤️Attachment - @tarablairball
❤️Lessons from failed relationships @MBTTTR
buff.ly/3RHDdaE
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19 Aug 2022
How and why do marriages end? How can you avoid that disintegration? Here’s one perspective from author Matthew Fray @MBTTTR on my podcast this week!
To listen to the episode on Apple: apple.co/3SVHUiq
To listen to the episode on Spotify: spoti.fi/3AvBek0
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15 Jun 2022
Some marriage must-reads from my list of Ten Books to Enrich Your Summer:
📚@MBTTTR on "This is How Your Marriage Ends"
📚Terry Real's "Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship".
buff.ly/3znQGOX
#SummerReading #CoupleGoals
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