smiling again after infidelity in a marriage of 22 years. I ✍🏻 and read for you on Spotify and Anchor 🎧 Links to my books 📚 are pinned. I blog at
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4 Mar 2020
Two years of suspecting, gaslighting , discovery and recovery in two books. Paperback links:
Sailing through #Infidelity amazon.com/dp/1091568839
Sail beyond... (Book 2)
amazon.com/dp/B084YBQKX5
Also available on #Kindle #KU
#AffairRecovery #BetrayedWife #Longtermrelationship
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6 Mar 2025
Transformation of a cheating husband by the willingness of the wife to stay. Listen to Dr @cmaddenmft open.spotify.com/episode/5YN…
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10 Feb 2025
Sometimes therapy is about your relationship with what you can’t change
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11 Feb 2025
Blindsided By His Betrayal: Surviving the Shock of Your Husband's #Infidelity a.co/d/ffjWY3j #Amazon via @Amazon
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13 Feb 2025
Six and a half years past Dday, a comment on my blog by @LikesEliza60549 prompted a new article: sailingthroughinfidelity.blo…
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13 Jul 2023
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2 Mar 2023
Such a good episode by @andrewgmarshall looking into the soul as men, no words. Important to understand the differences between ways of connecting with the self. open.spotify.com/episode/663…
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2 Feb 2023
Many of the problems we see as marriage counsellors would be eased by clients having stronger friendships. This is one of the really sad trends of our time.
2 Feb 2023
“The reality is friendship takes hard work and it requires courage,” says Weber. “For many of us, the fact that we find ourselves lacking in friends is circumstantial and not really in our control"
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18 Jan 2023
Just hurtful how much of their happiness women are always ready to sacrifice to save a relationship.
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18 Jan 2023
Working on your boundaries will repay all the time, effort and courage you put in.
Thank you for this beautiful and soothing representation of how healthy boundaries make us feel @lizandmollie
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19 Jan 2023
After an affair, the lives of both the unfaithful and the betrayed are seldom ever the same. It can feel as though that version of themselves is gone forever and their left without any hope of returning to who they were before the affair.
affairrecovery.com/survivors…
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13 Jan 2023
Not to be missed
11 Jan 2023
Silly Relationship Mistakes Smart People Make - my latest @substack article goes through some common traps to be avoided/lovingly addressed.
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5 Oct 2022
Looking for thoughtful relationship advice? Try #TheMeaningfulLife podcast:
❤️Terry Real on 5 traps to avoid
❤️Infidelity - @SailingInfidel1 @stilllearning2b @cmaddenmft
❤️Attachment - @tarablairball
❤️Lessons from failed relationships @MBTTTR
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6 Sep 2022
100 #TheMeaningfulLife episodes, 100 v different & totally wonderful guests 🥰
Thank you for all your support @TraceyCox @cmaddenmft @SailingInfidel1 @georginascull @Rowan_Rachel @LindaBerman4 @MovePastDivorce
If you haven't, check it out here!:
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25 Aug 2022
“I am no longer anxious about younger, clever, prettier women being around my husband. I am finally free. “ Read some #infidelity recovery ❤️🩹 reminders here buff.ly/3pOa7tW
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25 Aug 2022
there's a new article on my blog, after four months of not having anything new to share. You can visit here buff.ly/2Fi9mEp
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24 Aug 2022
Some key factors that can help recover from betrayal:
Take on a new project you feel passionate about
Organize a potential life without the current spouse
Do more of what gives you joy
Focus on your health and get physically stronger
#Infidelity
Read it: buff.ly/3cjNMl6
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