Acknowledging that some Black men have caused harm doesn’t negate the trauma many Black men silently endure from women, systems, and society. Healing isn’t a one-sided journey. Y’all chose men who hurt you, ignored the ones who wouldn’t, and now you want sympathy for loyalty to dysfunction. That’s not love, that’s lack of accountability. Choose better.
Y’all men can’t act like BM haven’t hurt BW and scarred a lot of us and we still choose yall.