I want to tell y'all a crazy family story, a story about a remarkable family coincidence. It involves the young man shown squatting down on the far right of the first photo. His name was Manley W. Darsnek, and he was my second cousin. He was killed in a bombing raid over Germany in 1944.
In early 2007 I was talking to my dad on the phone. My dad was already 70 years old, living a quiet, retired life, and didn't have any use for computers. He'd say things like "I've been on the planet for 70 years and never needed one ... why start now? Let's go fishing."
So we were talking and my dad said, "Hey, why don't you go into that Google thing on your computer and search for some alternative spellings of our last name? Maybe we have some cousins out there that we don't know about." My dad's father had immigrated from Latvia through Ellis Island about two years after his older brother and, via the capriciousness of the functionaries behind the desk when the brothers arrived, the two ended up with slightly different spellings of our family name. It's a common story, of course: I've read about five family members arriving at different times and ending up with five different spellings of their last name.
While on the phone with my dad, I typed in the word "Darznick." And it was this random misspelling of my last name that brought me to the weirdest coincidence of my life. I happened upon an account written seven years prior, on June 3, 2000, by a man named Lt. Col. Raymond E. Jones of Hemphill, Texas. On that date, Lt. Col. Jones posted a message on the 91st Bomb Group website, a site dedicated to preserving the memory of the 91st Bomber Group, which was a squadron that flew out of Bassingbourn, England, and bombed various Axis sites, primarily in Germany. If you've seen the series "Masters of the Air" on Apple TV you know the story of how incredibly brave these men were. And so it was that, 56 years after it happened, on that June day in 2000, Lt. Col. Raymond E. Jones posted this message:
"We were shot down on the 20th of July, 1944, over Zwickau, Germany while on a Leipzig mission. We lost 4 crew members that day. They were Donigan, Darznick, North and Callahan. Don Knapp and I and Bob Hart wound up in Stalagluft-I at Barth, Germany. Jim Veres was taken to a German army hospital and treated. I got Jim out of his station bloody, incoherent and without a chute. I got him a chute on, fastened a snap to his d ring, fastened that to the aircraft and pushed him out wishing him well. He was treated and released and sent to, of all places, Bergin Belsen consentration camp. A Luftwaffe officer and a SS doctor discovered American airmen in the camp. They were released and sent to a regular POW camp. When American troops reached Bergen Belsen they found approximately 30,000 corpses! I am the sole survivor of the crew of Winnie, Frank and Joe. Jim Veres, my very good friend, passed away in August, 1999. I can be reached at HC 53, Box 335, Hemphill, Texas 75948. My phone number is 409-579-3670."
I read this post to my father and he said "the Darznick that he's referring to is my cousin Manley, your second cousin." I didn't know anything about Manley. He'd been killed when my dad was seven years old and neither my dad nor my grandparents had ever mentioned him, nor could my dad remember ever having met him. When I read the plane's name, Winnie Frank and Joe, my dad instantly made the connection: Winston Churchill, Franklin Roosevelt, and Joseph Stalin. My dad said that the only thing he knew was that Manley had been killed in a bombing mission in 1944. All of this was news to me. Then dad said, "you've got to call Mr. Jones." I said "Dad, it's 8:00 p.m. and Mr. Jones has to be 80 years old or so. And he wrote this account seven years ago. He might not even be alive. I'll call him tomorrow." My dad said "You'll call him right now."
So I did.
After a couple of rings, retired Lt. Col. Raymond E. Jones picked up the phone. I explained who I was and that I was calling in reference to the post he'd made on the 91st bombing group's webpage seven years earlier. He said "and who are you again?" I said "I'm Manley Darsnek's second cousin." He said "hold on."
I heard him rummaging around for a minute. He got back on the phone and said "I'm holding in my hands a piece of paper that has Manley's parents' address and phone number on it. It also has the names of the other crew members. All of us wrote this information down so that, if the plane went down, any survivors could write letters to the next of kin and explain what had happened."
I was stunned. 30 minutes before I had never heard of Manley and now, because of a random misspelling of my last name, I was talking to the sole survivor --- the pilot, no less ---- of the B-17 in which he had died. Col. Jones related to me the whole story. He said that the plane had been shot in half, so that the tail section fell away. Manley, whom he knew pretty well and with whom he played quite a few games of poker, was a bombardier, right up in the nose of the B-17. The plane had sustained fire in such a way that Col. Jones could see that Manley had been killed instantly. In the next chaotic moments, Col. Jones rescued Jim Veres by snapping a parachute on to him, pushing him out the door, then jumping himself. All this as the plane was plunging to the earth. Col. Jones spent almost a year in a German POW camp before the war ended.
Then Lt. Col. Jones told me something that neither my dad or my grandparents or Manley's parents ever knew: that some time after the war Manley's body was disinterred from where the Germans had buried him after the plane crash and Manley was returned to Arlington National Cemetery, where he was buried alongside the other three members of the crew who died on that fateful mission. I was dumbfounded. But a search of the Arlington National Cemetery website turned up the second photo that you see here.
I listened to all of this in amazement. I told Col. Jones that I was going to give my dad his phone number and that he would call him the next morning. I hung up, called my dad back, and related what Col. Jones had told me about his cousin. You should know that my dad is himself a retired Lt. Col. who served two tours of duty in Vietnam. He's not prone to sentimentality or expressing emotions. But when I told him the story that Col. Jones told me, he was completely silent. When he finally spoke, his voice croaked with emotion. "I'll call the Col. in the morning," he said, and I swear I could hear him crying. There's nothing like an old war story to make a tough old soldier really feel it, I reckon.
My dad called Lt. Col. Jones the next day. They talked for a long time. I called Col. Jones back and said that I'd like to visit him over the summer, which he said would be fine. However, whenever I called him back, I got no answer. I could never reconnect with him. I didn't know if he got sick or was off visiting kinfolk or whatever but I feared the worst. I later found out that he died on Dec. 22, 2007—just months after I spoke to him. He's buried in Arlington National Cemetery, close to where his comrades in arms had been buried all those years ago. I'm not one to look for metaphysical things or deeper meanings, but some small part of me could not help but wonder if Lt. Col. Jones had stuck around all those years in order to tell the story to me and then, having fulfilled this last mission, went on his way.
On November 17, 2009, U.S. Representative Poe read the following into the Congressional Record:
LIEUTENANT COLONEL RAYMOND ERIC JONES, A MEMBER OF THE GREATEST GENERATION
Mr. POE of Texas: "Mr. Speaker, Raymond Eric Jones got married at the tender age of 19 to Lucille, and then he was off to serve his country 2 years later in the great World War II. Raymond flew B-17s over Germany,including bombing Normandy to prepare for the D-day invasion. In 1944, before his 25th mission, he was informed that upon completion of that mission, he would be taken back home to America as a hero and do public relations for the Air Force.
But that was not meant to be. His B-17 on that 25th mission was shot up and quickly crashed in a German field. Four members died on impact.
Even though he was wounded, Lieutenant Colonel Jones pulled the remaining two from the wreckage, and he would remain in a German prisoner of war camp for the next 11 months. Fifty-eight years later,Lieutenant Colonel Jones received the distinguished Flying Cross for saving his two crew members. He has also received the Purple Heart, the Air Medal with six oak leaf clusters, the POW medal and the Presidential Unit Citation.
Monday, in the presence of his family, Taps will be played at Arlington National Cemetery, where Lieutenant Colonel Raymond Jones will be buried with full military honors, another member of the Greatest Generation who made America proud. Amazing breed--a rare breed, these World War II veterans.
And that's just the way it is."
After all of this happened my dad went out and bought himself a computer. He reconnected with all sorts of Army buddies he'd lost track of and made some new friends, too. They visit each other etc... And, as his mobility has become a bit limited, his computer has been a lifeline to whole other worlds. The man who, at 70, had no use for computers is now sending me digital slide shows that he's made, with music and slow dissolves and everything else. Life's funny.
And so I look at Manley in this photo, the one trace I have of him. He was a handsome young man. He arrived in Bassingbourn and was dead just 3-4 months later. I'm not sure what the life span of the average bombardier in a B-17 was but I don't think it was very long. Like everybody else I've written about today, he had his whole life in front of him.
I have to say that, from the comfort of my air-conditioned chair, I just don't get it. I can't understand the rationale of war. You and I try to kill one another and destroy each other's industrial bases when we don't even know one another. In another circumstance, we might meet over dinner and become great friends. The man who fired the guns that killed Manley might have met him after the war, given him a cab ride, and stopped with him for a drink. I wonder if that man survived the war. I wonder if he knew what he done, or if he felt remorse. I wonder about so much.
But if there's one thing that doing this page for all these years has illuminated for me it's that the killing and the sorrow and tears are ceaseless and eternal. . From the Comanches going against the Apaches to the current troubles around the world, we just can't stop ourselves. World War I was to be the war to end all wars. And surely after World War II we learned our lesson, right? They say that if the men who choose to start the wars had to fight the wars there would be no wars. I wonder if that's true.
I'm sorry for this digression. But looking at Manley so rakish in his jacket just brings it all home for me. So I raise my glass to Manley W. Darsnek and to every lost soldier, sailor and airman. The only way we can truly honor their sacrifices is to resolve our differences peacefully.
Sadly, I don't know if we can. From where I sit, the odds don't look good.