No disrespect to anyone, but God please donโt send me another man who doesnโt know how to communicate, take accountability, or emotionally show up. I donโt want a man whoโs still battling himself, avoiding healing, depressed, or emotionally unavailable and refusing help. I donโt want a man who canโt stand firm, speak for himself, or take control of his own life. I donโt want a man who belongs to someone else, is still tied to past situations, or lacks compassion, empathy, patience, and romance. Iโm not built to carry a grown man through life while neglecting myself. Dealing with someone like that will drain you mentally, emotionally, and physically. I want a partner whoโs already doing the work, not one I have to break myself trying to fix. Keep that kind of man far away from me.