It's Children's Mental Health week 2024. The theme is Your Voice Matters.
I’d like to highlight the many ways in which children express their voice. For they don’t always talk or communicate in the ways that we expect.
They often express their voice through their behaviour. Sometimes loudly, chaotically, erratically, childishly. They might communicate with us by refusing to do something, or by being increasingly disruptive. Their voice is often inconvenient for adults, who would prefer it if they kept quiet.
Children show us how they feel and what they think all the time, but if adults don’t deem that to be appropriate then they are dismissed and sometimes punished for using their voice.
This children's mental health week, let's not put the onus on children by telling them to use their words, let's put the onus on adults to really listen.