Pretty fantastic advice here actually. Way too many cool people are air frying their life force trying to chase the tail of the dragon. The best part of life is actually being young and fully in the struggle and experimenting on stuff that feeds your excitement and joy
I don't know who needs to hear this.
You're in a tech job. You're making more than the median wage of the US worker. You're probably worried your skills are atrophying and you're not part of the leading edge of this stuff or doing the "important" work or on the right side of things.
But you're actually probably doing fine.
There are people out here, massive followings, legends amongst themselves, who can't do what you do. They can't build what you build.
They couldn't interview for nor hold the job that you're holding.
You might think you should quit and start something of your own. For a very small percentage of you that has a 20% chance of working and maybe you should take the chance if you understand the risks.
But for most people in this position, all you have to do is take it day by day. Work on some cool shit at night. Keep your eyes open and look for something better, more challenging. The opportunities won't disappear if you're vigilant; they'll just change shape.
You're probably in your mid-20s. Many of you are even younger. When I was your age I was repairing iPhones for $10 an hour and I'd eat MREs out of my National Guard coworker's car so I wouldn't blow an hour of pay or more on lunch. I didn't even know what Y Combinator or any of that stuff was until I was 24 or 25.
I give out a lot of advice for free and never charge people for coaching. I had a call with this founder who's one of the most incredible engineers I've met. He's burnt out after doing startups. He's like 22 and asked me "is it bad that I just want to be a 22 year old?" and I was like no man. You'll only be 22 once. There will probably be things to do for those with the courage to seek them forever. Don't worry about it, but don't coast either. Most life mistakes are worse than "I got burnt out" and are more like "I got addicted to drugs" or "I followed the wrong people around until my life blew up".
You don't have to worry all the time. You just have to try and make it happen, move to places with power-law scaling opportunities (dense cities with lots of capital), and keep trying until something clicks.
I worked at that iPhone repair shop until one day I called every studio in town asking to sweep the floors. The engineer for Lady Antebellum picked up the phone on the other end.
Even after the GRAMMY I couldn't really get a job. So I packed my stuff up and got to NYC where I moved in with my girlfriend and my roommate.
Got sick later. Lost it all. Worked at a bank. Discovered code completion early. The rest was history. The girlfriend became my wife. All I had to do was keep doing the thing until it became no easier but more reliable.
You will get there. But you will only be as young as you are once.
Don't burn that because you think you have to get ahead.
But don't let yourself become a 40 year old craving camp for grown-ups either.
You'll be fine if you exist in the middle bound of giving a shit.